I am an idiot

So i am confused to call and text her that i planning to visit her city. Or should I just go there and tell her? Its a big risk since i don't know even if she would respond. 😐

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If you're only going there to see her and she doesn't know about your plan or respond somehow then simply don't do it. Most likely, it will come across as creepy/stalkerish behavior — and you will be heartbroken. If she acknowledges you & agrees to meet and/or you have other things to do in that city then fine.

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Carissimi i really believe you what you said. Because i want to be strong enough to face the consequences. I should travel that far for my experience. 🙏🙂

Carissimi · 70-79, F

My best wishes to you. May you overcome whatever impedes your happiness. 🙏🤗@littlepuppywantanewlife

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Carissimi thank you. 🙂🤗

Viper · M

First, why are you visiting her city?

If it's not for her, then tell her including why you are visiting the city.

If it's strictly for her, then, um, kinda might her permission first, or know that she would want to meet, etc.

Borderline · M

You are not an idiot. You are in love and that's cool. We all have been there. Just don't look like one, OK?

You most definitely, will regret it. Please trust us.

InHeaven · F

Just go there

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@InHeaven well she has blocked me on phone as well. So even if i go there she won't meet me and there's no way to contact her. It will make me more miserable.

Adstar · 56-60, M

Woman don't like surprises..

Tell her you are planning to visit her city.. And just allow her to react.. If there is no reaction then just move on..

Borderline · M

I would not, just go. Asmae, is right. Please listen to her. Self respect, is paramount, to your healing process.

smiler2012 · 56-60

{@littlepuppywantanewwife] 😆 why do you not not call her and make arrangements to meet.. she will be chuffed to sse you and meet up

Carazaa · F

You have asked this for a few years now 😂 WOW...

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Carazaa i wish I was loved. But it's ok that you laugh my consistency for my stupidity. :(

Carazaa · F

@littlepuppywantanewlife Sorry, but I just think you deserve better than that person. She is not nice!

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@Carazaa i have decided to not go. I won't go anywhere.

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