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fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
Sounds like a good old-fashioned spanking is in order!

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
You ever consider putting the dish soap somewhere that he can't reach it. That's very scary because he could have drank it or gotten it into his eyes. Give him a stern talking to, tell him No don't ever touch it again. And buy a bottle of bubbles to blow with him and store it in a safe place. I worked in behavioral health for a few years with a child psychologist and we would always redirect them to something similar.
All this sounds really overwhelming. Taking away things from him will only lead to more retaliation ,I know that at the moment it is hard to do but you should maybe take two minutes to yourself before sitting him down and explaining why what he does affects you negatively ,in simple terms ofc. F.E. show him that the liquid soap washes dishes and show him that without it a dish won't get washed . This will help him think about the consequences more and how it affects you and him . When you retaliate as a response (taking away things/shouting/hitting etc) he will only retaliate back . I understand it's hard at the moment ,so again please take a minute to yourself first. All best luck
Parenting is hard and being a mother on a low income is very hard. Wishing you strength. Try not to take out that anger on your son, he's just a kid.
YoMomma ·
Be nice to your son even tho they do dumb stuff sometimes.. you can buy more soap and shampoo and other things at the dollar tree instead of spending 8$ or more for the same things at other stores .. save money 😬 be glad your kid is in good health and hug him and let him keep his toys 🥺 i know it’s hard to have kids and they can be tiring beyond words but be strong.. and cherish what time you have with them always ..
SW-User
that's why motherhood is sacred because it is fucking tough. Be proud of yourself, I'm sorry it is so hard on you.
Breathe, take a breathe. Create as much of a minimalistic environment so he can play freely without messing up much and also take him outside to spend his energy in some yard, it is very beneficial actually, to learn to climb some trees, and socialize . I'm sorry, I don't know what to tell you so I am making some things up to say. Follow your name, moon - peace ... <3
best of luck there!!!
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
How old is he? I’m so sorry things are so hard right now 🫂
moonpeace81 · 31-35, F
@SwampFlower 4... ugh its like wtf i just toook away his toys so he understands not to do it jesus christ
PlaygirlDizzy · 31-35, F
Do you know if he’s ADD or Austic at all?
jehova · 36-40, M
Consequences might involve pain sometimes. Spanking had been a real parenting strategy maybe for a reason?

 
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