I just cant .its hard being a mom

All this sounds really overwhelming. Taking away things from him will only lead to more retaliation ,I know that at the moment it is hard to do but you should maybe take two minutes to yourself before sitting him down and explaining why what he does affects you negatively ,in simple terms ofc. F.E. show him that the liquid soap washes dishes and show him that without it a dish won't get washed . This will help him think about the consequences more and how it affects you and him . When you retaliate as a response (taking away things/shouting/hitting etc) he will only retaliate back . I understand it's hard at the moment ,so again please take a minute to yourself first. All best luck

Parenting is hard and being a mother on a low income is very hard. Wishing you strength. Try not to take out that anger on your son, he's just a kid.

that's why motherhood is sacred because it is fucking tough. Be proud of yourself, I'm sorry it is so hard on you.
Breathe, take a breathe. Create as much of a minimalistic environment so he can play freely without messing up much and also take him outside to spend his energy in some yard, it is very beneficial actually, to learn to climb some trees, and socialize . I'm sorry, I don't know what to tell you so I am making some things up to say. Follow your name, moon - peace ... <3
best of luck there!!!

How old is he? I’m so sorry things are so hard right now 🫂

Do you know if he’s ADD or Austic at all?

Sounds like a good old-fashioned spanking is in order!