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What compels you to exist?

For what reason do you endure?

Is it not pointless?
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BamPow · 51-55, M
Inertia. I wake up every morning and just continue. I lost my son last year, which makes it hard to want to continue sometimes, but I have a daughter who I love and would be devastated if I didn’t. So, I move forward.
degraded · 22-25
@BamPow I am sorry for your loss.
hartfire · 61-69
This body has drives: hunger, thirst, tiredness, restlessness, etc
-- all the physical needs arising, being sated, and arising again,
a constant ebb and flow that maintains the living organism.
I obey its dictates using what knowledge I have of what's beneficial for good health and what's not.

The basics give pleasure in the sating and the satisfaction lingers for a while.
Being in nature provides peace and beauty.
Being with friends provides humour and enjoyment.
Reading fulfills the desire to learn and brings its own joy.

The rest, including death, comes when it's ready.
degraded · 22-25
@hartfire not enough.
hartfire · 61-69
@degraded Each must decide what is enough.

For those who decide that life itself is not enough or not worth the cost of staying alive, it is easy to choose death.

I'm 68. For me life is not worth living anymore, but I have settled for letting nature take its course.oy
Looking back, I remember wishing I'd never been born as early as eight years old.
There have been times of peace and even rare moments of ecsasy and bliss - but none of these outweigh the effort to earn a living or the struggles to supply the basics.
On balance, my existence has made little or no positive or negative difference to others or to life on this planet.
I still would prefer that I had never been born.
The best thing about death, for me, is to not exist and for the last traces of me to vanish.
When the burden of the simplest things, like preparing a meal or having a shower, becomes too much I will simply stop eating and drinking. At that point, one can die in only three days and it's a gentle process. The body knows.
Until then, the basics are enough for me.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I actually don't have it that bad. I enjoy some things a lot and if I don't, I still have hope I will again some time.
helenS · 36-40, F
Yes, it's pointless – and, as a result, I'm free! 👍🏼
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
@helenS did I tell you that I love you?
helenS · 36-40, F
@Lostlostlost Yes I think you did 🌷
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
My love of life, my music, art, family. I used to live for my work, but I am retired.
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Curiosity. You never know what might happen next. I think the only meaning our lives have is that we pay attention and help each other.
degraded · 22-25
@hunkalove Miley and you will marry?
hunkalove · 70-79, M
@degraded Darn tootin'! It's written in the stars!
StarLily · 51-55, F
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
I am compelled to exist only because I love my kids.
Reject · 31-35, M
What doesn’t compel me to exist? Life is great.
degraded · 22-25
@Reject It is great? It hurts.
Reject · 31-35, M
@degraded Hurts so good. 🥲
Hope. The hope that it will get better before I die, that I’ll finally find some happiness and peace in my life before it’s over
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
My marriage and son.
I like existing :)
SarahAndSamantha · 51-55, T
I made a promise
degraded · 22-25
SarahAndSamantha · 51-55, T
@degraded my twin that died in the womb
WandererTony · 56-60, M
The people who love me are the weakness i have. Cannot break their hearts.

My mother, wife, daughter.
Air... i like breathing.
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degraded · 22-25
@Malai Why?
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Self preservation is one of our strongest instincts.

"There is no desire more natural than the desire for knowledge" Michel de Montaigne
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
@softspokenman what does that have to do with it?
Bleed · 41-45, F
The only reason I’m still here is my kids. If it wasn’t for them I’d be outer here so fucking fast.
thrash · 31-35, M
must.... keep.... scrolling....

ill probably entertain this line of thought more seriously if the internet ever goes down permanently. but then there are always books...
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Life. Love. People. ☺
spite, mostly.
degraded · 22-25
@dirge Why?
@degraded my demise would bring more joy than I'm ready to let some have.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
What’s the option ?
degraded · 22-25
@AthrillatheHunt Peace. The other option.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
You mean besides morbid curiosity about what will happen next in this world?
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
@cherokeepatti oh yeah cause you have the guts to off yourself?
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Ferise1 I have fought cancer for two years, that’s take a bit of guts doesn’t it?
ArtieKat · M
As the Existentialists/Absurdists maintained: there is no point to Life - it is, merely, what we make of it.
newjaninev2 · 56-60, F
@degraded
We can do what we want

You make that sound like a bad thing
@degraded Speak for yourself. My life has meaning without your god or any of the other thousands of deities people have worshipped. Where did my meaning originate? From me!!
newjaninev2 · 56-60, F
@degraded
If God is absent, we have no purpose

and what is our purpose if your god is present?
DarkPulse · 31-35
Not really. Not unless I can create a difference then existence is not pointless.
hope for a firend like you
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@alicewhite Fire-end
Sounds hot
hunkalove · 70-79, M
@Donotfolowme I was just thinking that!
Pretzel · 70-79, M
the innate need for sef-preservation
degraded · 22-25
@Pretzel Why? Are you trying to preserve the physical body? It can't be the soul or the mind.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@degraded it's something that is hard wired into a person
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empanadas · 31-35, M
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
It’s not something we can control
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
@degraded you really have to go out of your way to commit suicide, have you ever tried? It’s almost impossible.
So nothing compares us to exist. It’s not something we can control. We had no say in our existence from the beginning.
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Ferise1 · 46-50, M
@degraded no we don’t kill ourselves all the time. Have you tried jumping off a building? Do you understand how scary it is?

 
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