What's one thing you wish people understood about you before they judged you? I wish people...

Umile · 41-45, F

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They will judge regardless.

I just let them roll with it.

Was trying to form an answer, but think I’ve hit the stage in life where I don’t care if anyone understands or judges me. Even with insight, others will form their opinions…especially when it suits their own narrative. So I’m okay keeping my inner “life shapers” to myself while others continue to do them.

LilPrincess · 41-45, F

That I can't always control my emotions. 😒

mindlessdrifter · M

I am a good listener

nonsensiclesnail · F

I would rather they saw their raw selves, who they are as posed to who they think they are, before they judged me.
They will judge me regardless of what I think matters.

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

I’m hard to get to know on a deep level. I’m very private because I have been burned so badly by people and friends I thought I could trust

pillowprincess · F

That I can feel insecure on a personal level, even if I'm showing strengt on the outside.

BLP11520 · 61-69, M

I’m prone to getting along with people more than is understood . I hate being typecast because of my skin and silver hair.Don’t label me and put me in a box cause I won’t fit

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

I wish people could understand I no longer want to be a caretaker. Don’t try to “match” me with the nice woman who has some health issues.

BobbyMoeven · 51-55, M

I wish people new ...

For the most part , I don't like to be approached by strangers ..

I guess I am not throwing the right visage ...I dress and look like a dad, not like the metal head dude i liken myself more to be ..

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

That most of what they judge about me are my problems and has nothing to do with them, therefore unless they truly care and want to help I'd appreciate if they rather minded their own business.

fvckit · 41-45, M

Where I’ve been… I try not to judge others for that same reason. I don’t know where they’ve been or what’s going on in their life I’m not aware of

Primnproper · 56-60, F

I feel I’m pretty self evident so I’m not really bothered. People will always judge, the ones worth your time are the ones that take the time to get to know you.

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MyMonstersAreReal

My darkness/depression

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

That I mean well.

BrianPickled · M

I left what people think of me in the past

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I do what I have to, just to survive.