Am I really such a pedophile?

I accidentally called 1 girl hot, who was 16, which is legal age over here anyway. I mostly said it so she didnt feel bad about my previous comment that she should wear baggier clothes so not to sexualize herself, which I think was probably the wrong thing to say and I admit that much. Truth be told, I barely glanced at her images. But now this certain user has caused me to lose friends and I can't help feeling there is an injustice here. I'm really not a pedophile and to call me one trivializes cases of real pedophilia.