Asking
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Do you worry about whether or not people like you?

Does it bother you if they don't like you? 🤔
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
I had to quit worrying about that years ago,. For the sake of my sanity
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and dog on it, people like me!
Dlrannie · 31-35, F
No I don’t worry about it as you can’t please everyone 🙂
TjNewton · M
@Dlrannie People should want to please you beautiful 😉😉💋💋💋
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
When it´s online I don´t worry.
But in real life I do.
JonathanC · 61-69, M
No. Fuck them.
SW-User
Only if something I've actually done warrants that. I am very introspective and and try to look at my own behavior. If they don't for no reason it doesn't bother me as much .
TheConstantGardener · 56-60, M
Not at all. There are some people for whom it's a relief that they don't like me. Their views are so obnoxious that I would be worried if they did.
ABCDEF7 · M
I know many people don't like me. But I have to live with this fact. What I try, is to change in myself for the obvious reasons anyone can hate anyone.
SW-User
Not at all…it’s their prerogative, but I’m not going to waste my time with them or change myself so that they would like me
I don't worry about it, but the though of someone not liking me, does bother me sometimes.

I would like to be liked.
No, I’m pretty much used to someone not liking me. I learned early, no point in stressing over things I can’t control.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
SW-User
Depends on the person…if it’s a random person on the internet then I don’t care, but if it’s someone I care about or who I thought I had a friendship with then it hurts and I go into that headspace where I doubt myself and think I’m a terrible person…it’s a real fun time
skmokisses · 46-50, F
Doesn't bother me not one bit
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
No. I live my life.
This comment is hidden. Show Comment
Fishy · 36-40, F
Depends, if it's like a potent employer or job interviewer, I hope they like me enough to give me the job
PhaqueYou · M
Sooo... it doesn't bother you?


Especially considering any consequences that may occur from whacks out there?
Manfredthemanic · 16-17, M
Yes, I do, and I do feel sad when people tell me they don't like me because I try to be nice. 🙈
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Nope! Its always been me against the world. I learned to not give af and be who i want to be.
Fun707 · 51-55, M
I know people do not like me it hurts sometimes
@Fun707 SOME people or everyone?
Fun707 · 51-55, M
@fernie2 It may seem it is everyone but really it is a few
Pretzel · 61-69, M
as I get older it becomes less important
It only bothers me when we can’t get along amicably.
LadyJ · F
I stop worrying about that back in my 30s
Majorsite · 61-69, M
How could I, I'm here after all.
Not particularly.
It's their HUGE loss 😌
TjNewton · M
Absolutely not IDGAF I'm not here to win a popularity contest
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
The people I care about sure. Because I care about those that I trust so if they are unhappy with me it’s a genuine reason more likely than not. If after self examination though it’s clear it is a then issue then I don’t worry about their thoughts further.
MethDozer · M
Not really. I guess if absolutely no one liked me or being around me it would cause me to reconsider myself but I have yet to experience that issue.
pianoplayingsteve · 31-35, M
I used to want to be liked by everyone as I like people to be happy and to enjoy what people have to offer. But there are too many people and too different people to please everyone. And nowadays an awful lot of people want to bring others down and disguise it somehow as compassion

 
Post Comment