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So many people are talking about this maintenance spanking and so many are suggesting it. Would you please let me know your thoughts and opinions on this an let me know why or why not to use it. Really appreciate your opinion on this subject

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Anna99 · 26-30, F
We use a weekly demerit points system and we go over it every Friday. The positive thing is that I am alot more aware of my general behaviour because I have to set a scoor every day before I go to bed. The stupid thing is that every thing I do became very visible to everyone. It's hard to ignore stuff like leaving the bathroom a mess or not doing my bed in the morning. The demerit system is supposed to take care of my general behaviour. Not the big issues.
@Mrpauldavies how old is your daughter?
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1olderguy20 · 61-69, M
@Anna99 how is your demerit system working? Ate you doing better in school?
teenbaby · 26-30, F
i'm not currently getting maintenance spankings but for a while i was spanked every Saturday just to keep my attitude appropriately submissive. As long as Mommy is satisfied with my behavior She's not going to start with them again but if i start getting bratty or willful She's promised to get back to my weekly spankings
teenbaby · 26-30, F
i don’t like them but i dont really have a choice
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@teenbaby @teenbaby Well you do have a say by your behavior .
teenbaby · 26-30, F
Yes Sir, i guess You’re right. So far i seem to be saying the right things with my behavior 😁
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Spnk8 · 36-40, M
@kayleeann169 wow really? Are you now in your 20s? Do you have any other siblings?
1olderguy20 · 61-69, M
@kayleeann169 what is used? Hand or hairbrush or the belt
@kayleeann169 This was how my sister and myself was brought up. We lived in a CDD family
Anna99 · 26-30, F
@Anna99 progress
If you don't know what it is, well to be honest I have to say that you don't have anything to contribute with in this case, you may leave and not comment, thanks
Allelse · 36-40, M
@Anna99 What's maintenance spanking?
teenbaby · 26-30, F
That sounds to me like a punishment spanking! My maintenance spankings are just to keep my attitude submissive enough. Like a reminder.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@teenbaby well do you not feel you are being spanked just for fun? Yes it hurts but you did nothing wrong to get spanked you know already what will happen if you misbehave so what’s the point? Do you find them helpful?
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Max27 · 31-35, M
I believe its a good way to keep someone on the right track and in domestic relationships i think they should be used for periods of time when needed.
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so many comments already and most are old. From my experience, they are useful for disciplinary purposes, but not for children. Rather, if a girl has reached 18 or so and still is repeating the same offenses she has for years, she may benefit from a weekly maintenance spanking to keep her on track and remind her of the more serious punishment she will have coming if she fails to learn the error of her ways.
Anna99 · 26-30, F
@SW-User I'm 17
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@Anna99 maybe you're ready for weekly maintenance to keep you on track, Anna. What do you think?
Anna99 · 26-30, F
@SW-User whrater not comment on that
sweetpixie · 18-21, F
I think it's very effective as a reminder to behave well.
teenbaby · 26-30, F
@sweetpixie How often di you get your maintenance spankings?
Anna99 · 26-30, F
@sweetpixie you do?
@sweetpixie Do maintenance spankings make you behave better Pixie?
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
I do weekly maintenance spanking on Dear Wife and have for 40 years. It keeps her grounded and knowing that she is truly loved. It is not merely a power exchange as some would like to believe but rather a control mechanism for her over her emotions. It works and works very well. We highly recommend it.
katielass · F
I don't pretend to know the dynamic between every couple but in a D/s or Master/slave relationship maintenance spankings are given on a regular basis and are generally not as severe as spankings for breaking a rule or misbehaving. It always helped me remember how important it is to follow the rules and be on my best behavior as well as remind me that I was loved ad cared for.
teenbaby · 26-30, F
@katielass That's true...when i was getting spanked every Saturday it was just to keep my attitude submissive and to show how much my Mommy cared for me. They weren't as hard or as long as a punishment but i still cried every time
ASouthernGentleman · 36-40, M
You are not getting spanked every Saturday anymore? I believe in maintenance spankings. They do help naughty girls remember how to behave. @teenbaby
ddlknaz · M
When I give maintenance spankings to adult women I spank it's usually for a bad habit or behavior they are having trouble stopping. An example recently is a single mom who was written up for the second time at work for swearing (f-bomb), and one more time means she loses her job. She was also swearing at home in front of her 15 yo daughter. Her daughter was just suspended from school for doing the same thing.
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1olderguy20 · 61-69, M
I don't think they are right if you have done nothing wrong
1olderguy20 · 61-69, M
How are you doing?
dan177 · 31-35, M
@Anna99 glad they're a positive in your life! Seem pretty mature to accept them as a reason you're improving
dan177 · 31-35, M
Why weren't you doing so well in school before at home? If that's cool to ask?
Controller · 61-69, M
Control for me is so important for me, in my relationship we both respect each other’s independence at the same time understand that there are borders that also have to be respected that if crossed have to be dealt with.
From time to time when these birders have been abused discipline is always used to reinforce the relationship.
For me it is a must, how else do we know where we stand. 🤔
updown2020 · 61-69, M
WellI think this practice is wrong because is like you are spanking for nothing it would almost be like sending them to jail to prevent them from committing a crime.
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updown2020 · 61-69, M
@rv101010 Well no I still would think it is wrong because bad behavior should be dealt with right away not whenever the maintenance spanking is done. Because how is the person to know whether they did something they would have to wait until spanking day. If a spanking is in order it should be done right away that way everyone can move on having to wait is wrong and not good for the person going to be spanked because they have to wait to see if they are going to be spanked or not. People know the parents in charge and if you wanted to enforce that idea every once in awhile you could give them a few good firm swats to their bum saying "behave or the next time it will be a more formoral spanking"
jennypenny · 70-79, F
Frankly I think it is the stupidest thing ever. I always think it's a bit like a policeman giving you a ticket just in case you speed. Discipline should be given as a consequence of an offence not just because it happens to be the time of the week
Anna99 · 26-30, F
@jennypenny this is the kind of answers I'm looking for.... Pro or against. Thanks
th3r0n · 41-45, M
I disagree with maintenance spankings in general. I believe that the motivation to avoid being spanked at all can make one behave pretty well when they expect punishment to be somewhat harsh but reasonably avoidable (last resort) and that doesn't work out if they're going to get spanked regardless.
frenchstrictdad · 46-50, M
@th3r0n I complety agree with you
I think maintenance spankings are completely unfair what would be the point in behaving. It would be like the police issuing traffic tickets to drivers who are not breaking any traffic laws
updown2020 · 61-69, M
So Anna this is being done to you or you are just asking people’s opinion on it? So what do you think of it now that you see people’s opinion? It would be like saying to you or someone «  because you have a habit of smoking you will be spanked once a week until you stop smoking. Oh I wonder if people are maintenance spanked more than once a week?
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redredred · M
It's spanking your lover just because. It reinforces the dynamic that two lovers agree that one can spank the other for any reason or for no reason at all. Since both enjoy the experience, introducing this note of uncertainty simply adds to the excitement.
redredred · M
@JP1119 I don't think spanking children for any reason is a good idea.
JP1119 · 36-40, M
@redredred I don’t either, but I mean, do you think parents that do maintenance spankings on their kids are being kinky? Or are those kids’ stories not true?
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@JP1119 Yes you are right maintenance spanking is that once a week they get spanked to remind them to behave otherwise they will get another spanking and it not just between adult children get them to. But it like I wrote above does that mean we should send people to jail for a few days just so they know what will happen if they commit a crime, I am all for spanking but for the right reasons.
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Poseidon2 · 56-60, M
I've never used a set schedule for maintenance. It's only when her attitude gets a bit out of line and I think I should reel her in a bit just to remind her of her place.
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
Some people need them to be good. They remind them to follow the rules. Saves them lots of trouble.
jennypenny · 70-79, F
Rubbish! @Mugin16
rv101010 · 61-69, M
it could be an efficient way to maintain discipline in a family . it must be a consensual rule !
domedeus · 51-55, M
Spanking can be given for pleasure or disciplinary reasons, maintenance spanking has a not clear status
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Hello Anna I'd love to chat with you about this sometime. Would you message me?
Joedirt88 · M
Will you be getting the spanking or be given it? I actually think they are unfair. Why punish if nothing has been done. Also if you know your gonna get spanked anyways there isn't a lot of accountability when there is a mess up..... If it is done I think it should be a lighter than punishment spanking.
Dixter · 26-30, M
well you should try it
no one here can make you like or dislike something you haven't tried
but most of the girls i knew liked having it for no reason
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Hi Anna, I'd love to talk about iylt with you. Mind messaging me?
it has everything to do with the reason for spanking in the first place
the way the Spankee feels is key
Anna99 · 26-30, F
Nothing useful so far...
kush90 · 31-35, M
@Anna99 hi anna
Joedirt88 · M
@Anna99 what exactly are you looking for in a response then?
I have had 4 kids and spanked them only when they have done some thing wrong. Why spank for no reason unless its sexual lol
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
there's more to it than just a spanking - there is also a mental aspect that goes with it -
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@kevinwillshow Kevin maybe cami will if you ask her?
MartinII · 70-79, M
I think maintenance spanking is completely pointless and illogical. Spanking is supposed to teach a child to behave, and punish them if they don't. If a child is going to be spanked anyway... well, I don't need to go on.
frenchstrictdad · 46-50, M
I don't like the idea of maintenance spanking, it can means punished for nothing
I prefer the idea of demerit system
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@frenchstrictdad Maintenance spankings are not punishment.
nickir · 61-69, M
I would not use them unless requested. Some girls feel they need them to keep on track. But it undermines corrective spankings if one is spanked without having a behavior that needs to be corrected.
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nickir · 61-69, M
Straight answer to a straight question. Maybe you should take ESL class so you can follow a conversation as it is rather than what you make it to be. Or it could be a reading problem.
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Allelse · 36-40, M
Does it have anything to with BEAUtiful lettuce!?!?!?


You can make that into a salad. BEAUtiful!!! Last couplah days!!!
I do spanking but never maintenance
I think it's a great practice and appropriate method of discipline
Anna99 · 26-30, F
@imstrictdad thanks for your opinion..
@Anna99 I'd like to talk more if we could, I would message you but it says I have to wait for a response?
susker09 · 41-45, M
How often do you get these? Seems unfair to get something on a regular basis.
MissyChrissy · 18-21, F
I get maintenance spankings on Sunday before church. My sore bum leads to kneeling in mass often like a good catholic girl.
More via pm/dm please
Max27 · 31-35, M
I support maintenance spanking to correct repeat bad behavior but I feel that they are not necessary all the time.
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I believe they work. I have known several people that get them.
SamuraiJack · 36-40, M
I'd love to talk to you about it. Have you had a maintenance spanking?
Spnk8 · 36-40, M
I use it alot with many people i spank/discipline. Im a disciplinarian i help many people get them back on track. I've spanked ages 18 to 68. Male female doesn't matter. I help anyone. Some people benefit from maintenance spankings others dont.
JimboUk · 31-35, M
People, specially women need structure
Bjoern1997 · 26-30, M
If you wanna discuss just leave me a message.
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I don't think you should be spanked unless you did something wrong. Perhaps try it for a few weeks and if the week is much better, keep it up.
xCoinx · 31-35, M
Whats Maintenance Spanking?

 
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