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Why do we bother with orgasms?

What do they do for you?
orgasms are like opinions, mine matter and I don't care if anyone else has one
WonderGirl · 41-45, F
It feels so good. From the first time I had an orgasm, I wanted more.
OldMan70 · 70-79
@butterflybaby75 Flying solo is still better than not flying at all!
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@OldMan70 But sometimes we don't feel like flying... ;-)
OldMan70 · 70-79
@butterflybaby75 You need to learn to treat "IT" like an healthy exercise and just DO IT!
NCCindy · 31-35, F
Cause the feel so good
WonderGirl · 41-45, F
My first orgasm was from a vibrator. I masturbated before but never had an orgasm it just felt good. Once I had an orgasm I became obsessed. I masturbated all the time.
@WonderGirl I had no idea what happened and was scared that I hurt myself and I was going to die. Prior to that night I was caught sleeping in my moms nightgown and I was given a lecture on how bad that was and never do it again. When I saw all that white mess I thought my inners were coming out.
I prayed to God and said I would never wear her nightgown again, just don't let me die. I didn't die and I lied. You couldn't stop me from wearing her nightgown after that when ever I got the chance.
Ravens80 · 41-45, F
You have to ask 🤦🏻‍♀️
Pretzel · 61-69, M
they are a lot of work

and a good sneeze is almost as satisfying

and you can do it in public/mixed company without having to register with the cops
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Pretzel Actually post-covid masturbating in public may actually be marginally less antisocial than sneezing 😉
Pretzel · 61-69, M
@SunshineGirl you raise an extremely valid point
Toepatrol · 31-35, M
They open alternate dimensions where My Little Pony is My Little Llama.
BeachGirl47 · 26-30, F
For me it's a great way to start the day.
they keep me sane
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
I'm a guy and I don't find them non-enjoyable nearly all of the time. I've had no sex with another person for 6 yrs. I've never been able to understand how once I cum, all of a sudden I feel like collapsing, have no stamina/energy for up to 24 hrs, and my penis shrinks so fast that I feel very embarassed. I'm average length (nearly 6 inch) and quite thick but after climax it turns into a pea. That's demoralising. I have *never* been able to 'recover' for another go in under half a day (at best) and that means I can't perform/satisfy a woman who wants to go again straight away and can orgasm multiple times in 'relatively' quick succession. It turns me off dating since I know once it gets to sex I have nothing to offer.
caesar7 · 56-60, M
Why do we bother???? It's the best feeling in the world!!!!!! There are so many benefits but for me, it's the relaxation effect afterward. It might be temporary but that moment is precious to me in this crazy world.
HootyTheNightOwl · 36-40
You're a little old to be learning about where babies come from...
HootyTheNightOwl · 36-40
@butterflybaby75 You don't specify a gender in your post.

No... you are correct, female orgasms have no part in reproduction and guys love getting in on the action while you are as dry as a piece of sandpaper.

They also hate the fact that female orgasm opens up the cervix so that his swimmers can get in more easily.

Down with all orgasms!!! 🚫🚫🚫
OldMan70 · 70-79
@HootyTheNightOwl You need to be a HELPER, not a DISCOURAGER.
Women CAN do it alone (have orgasms), but you can help also with some things other than penetration only!

Men who are bigger than average WANT her cervix to open up during orgasms to give him more room during penetration. The women who learn how to do this make the bigger men feel better.
HootyTheNightOwl · 36-40
@OldMan70 I'm merely siding with the nonsense she's spouting.

If I wanted to educate anyone on sex, I would go sign up to become a sex ed teacher and make sure that I get paid for my time.

I doubt that her inquiry is even genuine anyway... just about the only people who may think this way is the Amish.
JustAmber · 36-40, F
Because they are fan fucking tastic!!!
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@JustAmber How do you gain that understanding? What makes the 'link' between the physical aspects of sexual arousal and the psychological aspects? Is it possible that if your body doesn't make 'cuddle drug' hormones, etc. that sex and orgasms don't produce positive euphoria?
JustAmber · 36-40, F
@zonavar68 I'm sure its possible, but I would argue you have general dopamine issue and this would extend to many other things.
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@JustAmber I'm not a nympho but I guess women have the same thing - some women can't get enough sex and some don't want any and most are somewhere in between.
PSuss1 · 51-55, M
They stop me thinking about sex 24/7!
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
It healthy. It feels good. Never thought about it like you’re question. 🤔
PhpPhoenix · 31-35, M
@butterflybaby75 not necessarily. Men will have to ejaculate to impregnate a woman, but an orgasm isn't required for them either.
Coffeequilt · 51-55, F
@PhpPhoenix Make it worth while for the woman.
PhpPhoenix · 31-35, M
@Coffeequilt that's the least we can do when putting a woman through 9 months of pregnancy and childbirth...
They induce you to have sex and promote reproduction.
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@LeopoldBloom I can't get pregnant any more. ;-) Not much 'induces' me to have sex at present.
@butterflybaby75 It only makes sense if you enjoy sex.
They leave a mess in my panties that I have to wash out.
PhpPhoenix · 31-35, M
@silkydrawers and that's your reason to keep doing it? You like laundry? 🤔
@PhpPhoenix It just feels good. I don't mind doing laundry
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
They provide inducement and reward for the essential but otherwise rather tacky business of reproduction 😔
PeterJ · 51-55, M
If you have to ask, your having fun wrong
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@PeterJ Orgasms for us women serve no purpose.
chockaholic2020 · 56-60, M
@butterflybaby75 That's the saddest thing that I've heard for months! ☹️☹️☹️
PeterJ · 51-55, M
@butterflybaby75 pleasure is a purpose is it not
Taters · 41-45, M
why do orgasms bother with us? there are so many more deserving entities
PhpPhoenix · 31-35, M
They feel nice, but that's pretty much it.
Scarfface · 41-45, M
Stress relief and makes me sleepy 😴😊
They’re pleasant, and no bother.
Shutterbug · 51-55, M
Only do it for the money
1234cardiff · 61-69, M
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
@1234cardiff sure for a guy they are fun.

 
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