If you gave your date a blowjob do you count that as having sex?

This came up when me and my bf were discussing how many sexual partners we'd both had ...

Just to clarify it's a me dilemma not a him dilemma

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TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP

she better not have a dong... 😧

MarineBob · 61-69, M

Bill Clinton says no

Thinkerbell · 41-45, F

@MarineBob

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Northwest · M

@MarineBob

Bill Clinton says no

Trump doesn't have to worry about it.

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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

I don't class that as sex, no.

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TheWanderingMind · 41-45, M

@PatientlyWaiting25 I agree with you, to me it's a sexual activity or foreplay. Sex is when penetration is involved. My 2 cents.

TheHammer · M

@PatientlyWaiting25
Yeah.
If I'm I'm in a committed relationship, any sexual act would be sex for me, and the same way I wouldn't do it, she better not either.
To me that's like going to a restaurant and someone asks..
Did you eat?
And I say... No, I mean I did nibbled here and there from the buffet, but I didn't eat.

Well, then you ate!

Like that.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

@TheWanderingMind yeah that's why I'd say too because you'd still say you were a virgin if you'd done all that stuff but not penetration.

Longpatrol · 31-35, M

Sex generally is the horizontal tango,I'd consider blowjobs on a date a bit of fooling around

ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F

I didn’t used to count oral as sex, but I guess it is.

Finchy · 41-45, T

Oh no. And that was funny

GerOttman · 70-79, M

Masturbation is having sex, just with yourself. A hand job is having sex. If somebody's having a orgasm, they are having sex. it's all just shades of grey.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

Interesting question with historical connotations, as the nation and world saw during Bill Clinton's impeachment. GOP says yes, a blow job is "having sex", Clinton said "No, a blow job is not sexual relations." I guess it remains an open question.

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