Is it worth it?

I think you deserve a friend who is more accomodating.

I only have one person on this planet that I can tell I'm upset because of something they've done without reprecussions, and they say I'm the only one they can tell. It still stings when she tells me I've upset her and I can tell it's the same for her, but we actually followed through on our plans to be able to talk to each other about these things. People always say they want open-communication but then they hold stuff back or get upset when someone opens up. It's not easy and the majority of people aren't prepared for listening and comforting someone they've upset, even when they didn't mean to and for the benefit of their relationships.

Despite the fact that people like the theory more than the practice, I speak up when I'm upset... if the person who upset me matters to me.

In my opinion ... never accept. That will empower them to manipulate you and situations. Always stick up for yourself. If they don't accept and validate your feelings, are they truly friends anyway?

Listen to your gut, you're right. They're not friends of yours or very immature. You could try to explain, but history shows someone like that either
a) doesn't wanna understand
b) too immature to understand.

It’s not a nice feeling when you feel like you can’t speak your mind because you’re worried about what the other person will think. Sometimes it’s probably better to keep it to yourself and try and move past it if you can, but if it happens a lot then you need to voice it and they need to listen, that’s what friends are supposed to do.

Never happed to me. My friends never hurt me, and to the best of my knowledge the never felt being hurt by me. Maybe that's why, there are very few I can call as my friends. It's all about understanding & respecting each other. If these two things are not there, I don't know how can you call them friends. Maybe my definition of friendship is bit different.

I don't make friends, when we start to understand each other very well, we become friends.

In your case, I think you should tell them.

Sometimes, in reality, it depends on the friend. Some aren't going to be able to get certain things but can understand other things that maybe another friend won't. Nobody is perfect. It's up to you to decide if you are ok with it.

Going through that with a situationship right now. She hates when I tell her how her actions hurt me. I get a passive aggressive answer and a silent treatment so I have to apologize if I want to hear from her ever again. She could go days without contacting me unless I apologize even when I am not at fault

Of course it’s worth it. And if they always get upset then they aren’t real friends 🤷🏾‍♂

Always tell them, let them know, how they react should determine whether to continue the acquaintanceship or not.