Is it worth it?

If a friend says or does something that upsets you, but if you tell them they upset you they get annoyed or stop speaking to you…is it worth telling them? I always think they’d want to know if they’ve done something that upset me, if they care about me surely they care I’m upset. But it never works out that way, they’re always just offended that I dare to complain. So what’s the point. Either I’m upset and they’re oblivious, or I’m upset and they’re not happy with me. Is it worth even telling them or am I meant to just accept when they say or do something that upsets me and just be grateful that they bother with me at all?

I genuinely don’t know anymore.

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ABCDEF7 · M

Never happed to me. My friends never hurt me, and to the best of my knowledge the never felt being hurt by me. Maybe that's why, there are very few I can call as my friends. It's all about understanding & respecting each other. If these two things are not there, I don't know how can you call them friends. Maybe my definition of friendship is bit different.

I don't make friends, when we start to understand each other very well, we become friends.

In your case, I think you should tell them.