TangledUpInBlue · F
No and no. I have a very select few that I chat with. I like them and I’m not interested in making new connections. I I’d rather spend my energy on existing friends. I’m open to conversation with anyone but to share details of my life with new people? Nah. Not easily.
@TangledUpInBlue I don’t have the energy I used to have.
If I was on a site like this when I was 21…watch out!
If I was on a site like this when I was 21…watch out!
beermeplease · M
there's some on here i used to chat with all the time but don't any more....but i am totally ok with that.
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@beermeplease No one is going to change anyone else’s mind about politics here.
beermeplease · M
@Ghostinthemachine nope...but at least there are some on here where we can have total political differences with and at the end of the day we all go to bed and the next day we can talk about cats or clouds or whatever and we leave politics aside and be friendly and cordial .....
@beermeplease that’s the way it should be.
In the end, our similarities outweigh our differences
In the end, our similarities outweigh our differences
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
Nope I chat with those that I enjoy and tease. If it is a person, I do not enjoy chatting with I ignore them and their posts.
So, buster aroo you were not Ghosted!
So, buster aroo you were not Ghosted!
@WillaKissing In the immortal words of The Police: I’ll be watching you 👀👻
WillaKissing · 56-60, M
@Ghostinthemachine and in Monty Python's Flying Circus- Brilliant!
@WillaKissing I need to use “Brilliant” more often in my everyday conversation
Rickichickie · 61-69, F
Nope, I just stop writing if somebody annoys me and usually don't get another message. This is not the place to make close friends.
@Rickichickie hopefully the right candidate gets voted in, if that’s what you wish
Rickichickie · 61-69, F
@Ghostinthemachine I think he's worth it 😉
@Rickichickie those type of people are rare 🤓
rinkydinkydoink · M
I'm odd. Being invisible is better than being muted or blocked.
@Promises I would say I’ve been confused by most of the times I’ve been blocked, and I agree, I use it as a last resort, if that person has been cruel or evil.
Otherwise I am generally quite open to other people’s thoughts and opinions.
That’s how learn and grow.
I like your username btw 🙂
Otherwise I am generally quite open to other people’s thoughts and opinions.
That’s how learn and grow.
I like your username btw 🙂
@Ghostinthemachine Thank you! Yeah, it confuses me too, but I don't let it bother me. Yes, cruel and evil. Perfect description 🙂
@Promises The first time it happened it confused me for sure, maybe eve hurt a little. But now I just roll with the punches 😌
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
Nope
@Shybutwilling2bfriends all good then
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
@Ghostinthemachine yep
Tumbleweed · F
Yes
No
No
@Tumbleweed well what’s preventing you from tumbling on over to their inbox?
@Tumbleweed Maybe so🤷🏻 lol
Scouser · 36-40, M
My sister
@Scouser why don’t you tell her you’re here, if you want her to know
Scouser · 36-40, M
@Ghostinthemachine im too embarrassed
@Scouser I understand that. I might be too if a family member was on here as well, and didn’t know I was
bijouxbroussard · F
There are a couple of people I’ve addressed briefly, but if they don’t initiate more comments, I don’t push.
@bijouxbroussard I’m kinda the same, I take a “no reply” as the end of the conversation
rinkydinkydoink · M

SW-User
Oh yes
@SW-User what’s stopping you?

SW-User
@Ghostinthemachine well some didn’t respond back
@SW-User it does take two to tango, unfortunately
Sweetnspicy1 · 46-50, F
Nah. I have a very select few I chat with and I'm rarely here anyway 😂.
@Sweetnspicy1 Probably the best way to be, for your benefit 🤭
JaxSunn · 51-55, M
I haven't found anyone who speaks Greenlandish yet.
rinkydinkydoink · M
(Excellent post, btw)
@rinkydinkydoink thank you 🙏
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Yes and no.
@Starcrossed no point in forcing conversation, is there
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@Ghostinthemachine right, no point in forcing it.
Even if I'm not interested, generally I'll respond to someone out of politeness if a question is asked. If someone messages me a statement and don't have anything relevant to respond, I might not reply. If someone is really creepy, I might not respond at all.
Even if I'm not interested, generally I'll respond to someone out of politeness if a question is asked. If someone messages me a statement and don't have anything relevant to respond, I might not reply. If someone is really creepy, I might not respond at all.
@Starcrossed one word replies or “lol” usually indicates to me they aren’t interested in carrying on the conversation any further
No, not really.
@Promises probably for the best, PPP, but things may change
rinkydinkydoink · M
@rinkydinkydoink lol some would probably disagree. Thank you Sugar!
OogieBoogie · F
I wish i liked chatting, but i dont.
Im shit at it.
I like conversations that are about real stuff, deep stuff, amazing stuff.
Chatting is like nails on a chalkboard to me, it hurts mah brain to do it
Im shit at it.
I like conversations that are about real stuff, deep stuff, amazing stuff.
Chatting is like nails on a chalkboard to me, it hurts mah brain to do it
@OogieBoogie I meant chatting as in conversation.
Small talk is just that, small. There is too little time not to talk about bigger things
Small talk is just that, small. There is too little time not to talk about bigger things
Musicman · 61-69, M
Some days I just like talking. I don't really care who. There are a few of the fetish people I definitely wouldn't mind never talking to again though.
Musicman · 61-69, M
@Ghostinthemachine I definitely agree with you.
@Musicman let’s agree to agree then