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Grandma's 75 birthday dinner party

I am about to freak out.

Got a email from one of Joel's cousins saying they are planning a surprise birthday party for Grandma. They are waiting it to be a a very fancy restaurant and a black tie affair.

I don't know what to do. I can barely handle a regular sit down restaurant. When we go I always ask if we can be seat in the back away from other people. Even then I still struggle and have to get up and pace many times. And my tics and outbursts are always worse when I try and sit down so I stand most of the time near the table.

But there is no way I could do that at a very fancy restaurant.

Oh Lord what am I going to do.
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4meAndyou · F
I believe the best thing to do is arrive late, bring a birthday gift for Grandma, and present it to her while SHE sits at the table. Accept her thanks, give her a hug, and then leave.
Cigarguy · M
@4meAndyou yea that might be a good idea