Name something traumatic your ex did

Told me she was visiting family but was moviing the whole time with her family and called me to come see my kid one last time before she moved and i came to a half empty house and she took my kid to a new state and i barely saw her after that & then eventually she got married and then cut me off and blocked me.

Abuse me by ignoring safewords then not giving me any comfort🥰

Boy do i have a cracker 💣: My ex gf and i broke up in may 2023 after a big pregnancy scare ( faint blue dbl line = chemical pregnacy) and hard talk about if we are getting married after an on off 6year relationship or not, and we broke up but remained on speaking terms, oh and her follow up blood test was negative( I had to buy her the test too mind you, coz she had been unemployed for over 3 years)

by july 2023 she blocked me on whatsapp for no other reason than she said she couldnt bare to hear about me discussing my workplace issues anymore, and she went full no-contact.

I kept a mock profile on insta and checked her profile every now n then there was nothing new posted except for pics of our last time together hiking in apr 2023 i also checked her fb profile every now n then (she has a public profile, i dont use fb) her relationship status was still 'single'


Fast foward to march 2024 i wake up after a bad dream in the middle of the night and my intuition told me to check her instagram.. And there was a new post by ex with a 1month old mulatto baby ( she and i are both caucasian) along with her engagement ringed hand and her coloured fiance - then i decided to check her facebook( which is a public profile) and i her relationship status was now ' engaged since June 2023' i did the math...

Soo... Turns out she conceived her baby in july 2023 - 2 months after we broke up, and was engaged in June 2023 1month after we split.. Suffice it to say, i realised that her chemical pregnancy wasnt mine! And i would have been cuckcoo birded if i had chosen to go ahead and marry her back in May 2023..

I have always been on the wrong side of the worst disasters. My Ex and I were in a bowling league..Ball slipped out of his hand, straight back. Broke My Nose!!!

So my ex-wife and I separated amicably and there was an understanding that we would still be friends.

After the divorce finalized and she had been moved out for two-ish weeks, she ghosted me. 5 months later she asked to visit our cat children and I mentioned that I had a new girlfriend and she hasn't talked to me since. :/

So much for being friends and not being petty.

I got made redundant from my job. My wife said i needed to move back to my parents until i got another job. I asked her what happened to for better or worse. She said your no use to me if your not making money and supporting me and the kids. I left and went back to my parents and told her it was over. I got another job days latter but told her i was not coming back. She said ok just pay for the kids and thats fine. Then she found out i was getting a load of redundancy money and she started begging me to come back as the kids was missing me. Like a fool i did and the moment the money went into our account she had it all and kicked me out.

Left me after his family moved far away. But he was only eighteen. It was either that or being without a family, whom he was close too. There are no hard feelings. In fact, I’ve long-since moved on from him. But it was my very first heartbreak.

It was her place to tell her parents, not yours.

My second ex told me she was finally pregnant (in about Jan 2017) but she'd already told all her close friends several weeks before. For me that was the beginning of the end of the relationship with her (that I ended by leaving her in Sep 2018). Our daughter was born in Aug 2017.

We'd spent most of 2016 going through IVF + egg donation with no success to that point and I was still having to mostly work away.

People don't do traumatic things.

It depends on the receiver's response, so NOBODY EVER did this to me. On the other hand I have been hurt by peoples behavior countless times.

And I am gone now.

leave me