How can i make myself less appealing to psychopaths?

My advice: until you super know and trust a person, don't give them too much info about your traumas or previous relationships. I struggle with this myself, but see: if you tell them, hey my ex bf cheated on me or hit me and we worked it out for awhile..they smell BLOOD in the WATER. you have just told them, a) you give 2nd chances, b) your fam and friends are likely already looking at you sideways bc of this previous relationshit, so i can get away with x, y, and z for longer..[i]she will be afraid to tell them that lightning struck twice.[/i] c) if a guy asks you what you look for in a man, do not tell him. you have just given him a blueprint for how he needs to act to cop you.