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foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
My advice: until you super know and trust a person, don't give them too much info about your traumas or previous relationships. I struggle with this myself, but see: if you tell them, hey my ex bf cheated on me or hit me and we worked it out for awhile..they smell BLOOD in the WATER. you have just told them, a) you give 2nd chances, b) your fam and friends are likely already looking at you sideways bc of this previous relationshit, so i can get away with x, y, and z for longer..she will be afraid to tell them that lightning struck twice. c) if a guy asks you what you look for in a man, do not tell him. you have just given him a blueprint for how he needs to act to cop you.
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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@foldedunfolding YES! When they also say personal things too quickly.. i think thats to draw you in so you feel closer to them.
foldedunfolding · 41-45, F
@PaleandPolluted absolutely..and likr i said, i REALLY struggle with this. i share a lottt on this site, and i need to be aware of that as well. Just last night i posted something deeply personal..so it is easier said than done..and im sorry but the pool is TAINTED..so dont feel bad if you run into mostly those guys, or if you need to remain single for awhile
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HeartlessLove · 31-35, M
@Majorlatency they have nothing in common, it's just schizophrenic can show violent tendencies when they are in their delusions or if there paranoia is triggered and when that happens they can become a threat to them and or those around them
S33K3R · 36-40, F
Depends on how you're attracting them. In relationships, tell them no if they flip out act like it's no Big deal then ghost.
In a dark parking lot, carry your keys so if you punch it will stab them and square up with anyone approaching and watch your back and check between parked vehicles and in truck beds as well. Don't get in your vehicle if you aren't confident you can't shut the door and lock it before they get to you. You're a sitting duck in a vehicle if you can't drive off.
I also carry a 3 inch blade in my bra LoL
In a dark parking lot, carry your keys so if you punch it will stab them and square up with anyone approaching and watch your back and check between parked vehicles and in truck beds as well. Don't get in your vehicle if you aren't confident you can't shut the door and lock it before they get to you. You're a sitting duck in a vehicle if you can't drive off.
I also carry a 3 inch blade in my bra LoL
