My bf is depressed.

honestly logged back on thinking about making a post like this, word from word too. dont feel bad but just try to be there and be a ear for him whenever hes ready, slowly get him outdoors or take him somewhere that favors his interest.

im trying to do the same tbh but its like hes either too busy playing his video games or he doesn't want to be bothered with me anymore. his friends are getting fed up with him too, im getting there but i also have to have room for understanding on what could've made him get into this mental state

I just hope you are never in the same state he is in and have the people you care about most are thinking about leaving you.

Frank communication is the only answer. Both need to be prepared to hear things they don't like.

Let him deal with his depression without u…

Why do women care more about themselves and their happiness than their partner.and trying to get them happy. What about commitment.

What ever happened to staying with someone in the good and bad times.

Ur not abandoning him by prioritizing mental health for both of you. Compassion isn’t sacrificing your wellness forever. He owes it to himself and to you to seek help. Dependency isn’t love; it’s inertia. Talk to him firmly, kindly, and encourage him to take action

Your loyalty is commendable, but in the end. You need to take care of numeral uno.

well first

is this a normal state of mind for him?
is he getting any help?
did he stop taking meds?

basically - is this new or is he just coasting?

you due need to take care of you

Do u have sex

Women are not rehabilitation centers for broken men.

That help?