Has anyone had therapist that mainly listens to you/nods?

My last two or three did this, and my current one, while very kind .. does this as well. I am there to get feedback, tips and affirmations, anything that can aid this healing of severe PTSD. I am not sure why or if they believe EVERY patient only wants a sounding board or just a pair of ears? I have major trouble speaking up too, that is part of my severe anxiety. I feel so awkward asking for what I need, with anyone really :( But I guess you just need to find that 'right' therapist, that really CARES to go forth MORE with you and ask questions, or show they are wondering about connecting the dots in your past, to how you are NOW. Anyone else go through this ?

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Husher

Yes, I phoned crisis lines. They helped more. They're free and anonymous. You can get a new counsellor everytime and build up things to talk about at any time you feel like calling.
Also please run away from why you can't speak up and start doing so anyway. It's very important. Practice with the counsellor without telling them.
I think they're trained to nod and listen without causing you to do something.
Some of them are less helpful and
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