NO COLD TURKEY! You can start looking for a new job while you still have this one and you can put off having a baby. You have to start with your own mental health. If you just quit expect some really crazy dreams. If you believe you don't need the meds don't take them. They are only affective for about 40% of all people that take them. They have bigtime side affects. They could be as addictive as opiods. They change the way you think. Exercise is a better anti anxiety medication than zoloft is. HOWEVER you could be one of the people a maintenance dose can help. Keep a jounal of how you feel. They will try anything for depression these days including ketamine. Look up ketamine. Matt Perry died from a ketamine overdose. I have been on antidepressants for years and the side affects are worse than the original problem.