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I am depressed

It snuck up on me. Over the last 24-48 hours I've been feeling awful mentally. But maybe awful is the wrong word for it - it's more like I don't feel much of anything yet am overwhelmed by emotion at the same time. This afternoon I even wondered why my life was worth continuing at all, the first time doing so in quite a while. Part of me is lonely, but the rest of me is resigned to that simply never changing - I'm neither tall enough nor good looking enough nor 'useful' enough for women to consider anything other than a threat regardless of what I do. I'm so tired... maybe sleeping forever wouldn't be so bad.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
The people who care about height, or are picky about looks, or how "useful" someone is sounds pretty shallow and quite frankly anyone who thinks those qualities are the most important in a relationship have probably never been in a long term relationship. Chemistry, communication and character matter more.

Height doesn't matter. Looks don't matter, as long as you take care of yourself, and useful doesn't matter if the people involved are capable of being independent adults. And In this modern age, you can hire anyone to do things from a car mechanic, housekeeping, remodeling, accounting, etc. You hardly have to be good at everything.

In conclusion, you're fine. Keep looking. Take a day to yourself if you need it. Someday you'll meet a sweetheart who loves you for yourself.
DeeBee · M
G'day neighbour from across the ditch,i can relate to the way you're feeling to a degree.Loneliness is a real thing and it impacts many of us,please don't allow these thoughts to rule your world.Your looks,size don't define you as a person nor does that mean you wont meet a sincere woman in the future that looks beyond the superficial and sees you for who you are.Hope you get a good sleep and tomorrow the sun will shine okay?Unless it's a bloody storm of course haha,take care man!
Ruth82 · 41-45, F
Do not give up hope. Believe it ir not you wont always feel this way!
Lostpoet · M
You can't drastically change your height just like women that view only tall, masculine, worth their time can't change their IQ.

I like you man, not sexually, but you are smart and... you are smart.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I'm in the same boat. Been depressed for about a month.
crushedstrawberriess · 22-25, F
The last guy I liked was 5'4 and he wasnt even that great looking, what got me was that he always made me laugh. Work on your confidence, once you feel better you attract better.
hannah321 · 26-30, F
If you tried to improve yourself in some way you could kill two birds with one stone but I guess whining is what you chose today
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Why would they consider you a threat?
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@WhateverWorks I don't know, but I've seen how they look at me, wary and on alert

 
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