I end up putting myself in similar situations

@DunningKruger I think I'm doing something wrong but idk what it is.....

@sahi81 Examine the situations you mentioned. What are their common attributes? Don't just go to blaming yourself — look at them dispassionately. Did the problems come because you trusted people who had not earned nor deserved your trust? Did the problems come because you held on to the idea of something long after it was clear that idea was fallacious? Look closely, but look as objectively as you can.

@DunningKruger ok. I will try and see

@sahi81 Also, look more broadly. You're in India, am I correct? Many of your problems might be because of aspects of Indian culture over which you have no control or influence. Maybe going somewhere else is something you want to consider.

@DunningKruger it happened to me when I was in groups with westerners too... Maybe I was around wrong type people, groups, culture or environment

@DunningKruger I think the common things are culture, toxic environments/groups/places, or leader of group being toxic.

Maybe I am subconsciously drawn to toxic environments and people

Or maybe i appear weak, angry or over -emotional to others so they think they can poke fun of me.