Well said. The good news is you can give yourself permission to rediscover who you are. I went through that period with my divorce: started doing karaoke religiously on friday nights and started playing frisbee football. Then crocheting ( still terrible at it).You have gifts and talents buried in you that you havent even discovered yet....and here's a bio hack that can help you unlock this:
Go outside into nature away from any man made things.....like in a park forest or by a creek somewhere.....spending time alone there will "unearth" things inside you and listen and be there without a phone or anything.....you'll find those parts of yourself that were hidden and not missing...on your side!
Go outside into nature away from any man made things.....like in a park forest or by a creek somewhere.....spending time alone there will "unearth" things inside you and listen and be there without a phone or anything.....you'll find those parts of yourself that were hidden and not missing...on your side!
@Mordechai Your welcome. and thanks for best answer. yeah I can't take all the credit the "find yourself in Mother Nature" moment came from John Eldredge. He has a book Wild at Heart that is mostly pretty good. cheers
exchrist · 36-40
I find myself without personal interests pastimes or hobbies also. For medical reasons I haven’t been able to work for political reasons I have almost no friends only SW and family. The internet is certainly not a friend.
I was also thinking of what I did in the past to feel included. Whereas I used to smoke and drink to meet and connect with people. Now, I’ve stopped both; plus for medical reasons. That was a big part of who I was smoking weed with some friends I know. Get drunk every other week at a local bar hook up from time to time.
Now what?
I will eventually pursue more education to become more involved in socialization. But at age 35 I’m pretty much checked out so to speak! Bah adulthood sucks. Plus with americas future being championed by a bunch of retirees prayer is the best we have 😭 Good luck to us all!
I was also thinking of what I did in the past to feel included. Whereas I used to smoke and drink to meet and connect with people. Now, I’ve stopped both; plus for medical reasons. That was a big part of who I was smoking weed with some friends I know. Get drunk every other week at a local bar hook up from time to time.
Now what?
I will eventually pursue more education to become more involved in socialization. But at age 35 I’m pretty much checked out so to speak! Bah adulthood sucks. Plus with americas future being championed by a bunch of retirees prayer is the best we have 😭 Good luck to us all!