I don't think my sense of self has returned fully from the last 3 years yet

I went through a time where I just worked and studied in relative isolation. I thought it was social anxiety but I literally haven't invested in anything in my personal life, hobbies, interests etc. I had no time.

So I find myself not knowing who I am, I have basically nothing to say to people other than "I study and work". People like me because I'm oddly funny in person and genuine but tbh I feel there's not much interesting about me right now. I feel like I'm vacant? Nobody home at the inn.

I was happiest in martial arts, going to the bar afterwards with friends. I think we need to be part of something to have identity, it's shared.

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exchrist · 36-40

I find myself without personal interests pastimes or hobbies also. For medical reasons I haven’t been able to work for political reasons I have almost no friends only SW and family. The internet is certainly not a friend.
I was also thinking of what I did in the past to feel included. Whereas I used to smoke and drink to meet and connect with people. Now, I’ve stopped both; plus for medical reasons. That was a big part of who I was smoking weed with some friends I know. Get drunk every other week at a local bar hook up from time to time.
Now what?
I will eventually pursue more education to become more involved in socialization. But at age 35 I’m pretty much checked out so to speak! Bah adulthood sucks. Plus with americas future being championed by a bunch of retirees prayer is the best we have 😭 Good luck to us all!