NestChicken · 31-35, M
Fluffybull · F
MasterDvdC · 70-79, M
smiler2012 · 61-69
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smiler2012 · 61-69
@NestChicken 😄actually far from it i am from the united kingdom actually . i do not like being touched i know it sound strange but never have since i was a kid . i do not mind hugs if i am upset or i am a very loving person and hate seeing people upset and hurt and will offer a hug too comfort and console them
NestChicken · 31-35, M
@smiler2012 I had friends who were really touchy with me. I’m not going to detail how because I respect them. I tend to let my friends do what they want with me cause it’s just flesh. Most people though are respectful and don’t take advantage. I am also very touchy but only with close friends and the ones that are, drown in tlc. It can sometimes be too much for them.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@smiler2012 I like the intention of hugs but I am too akward and I normally don't touch anyone so its hard to have someone so close. It causes a bit of anxiety. I love the love of hugs but I hate the awkwardness of hugs if that makes sense.
Now I personally enjoy taking care of others so I frequently place my hand on the shoulder or arm of someone that I am comforting.
But I can only fully relax in a hug with someone that I have no discomfort or anxiety with such as my mom or husband.
Now I personally enjoy taking care of others so I frequently place my hand on the shoulder or arm of someone that I am comforting.
But I can only fully relax in a hug with someone that I have no discomfort or anxiety with such as my mom or husband.
WandererTony · 56-60, M
BrownEyedElliex · 18-21, F
NotAfraidofAnything · 26-30, M
NoGamesTolerated · F
Hugs are great. We all need hugs. I’m very much a hugger. 🙂
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@NoGamesTolerated Yea hugging is ok but squishing my boobs accidentally onto someone or squishing theirs or whatever is uncomfortable for me. Touching people so closely then having to second guess if I should have known where to turn my face or how much pressure to apply is too worrisome.
I almost went for a side hug but last second I added the other arm which messed up where I was going to put my face. I hate this
I almost went for a side hug but last second I added the other arm which messed up where I was going to put my face. I hate this
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
bijouxbroussard · F
My mother does, too. She only initiates hugs with Pop, her children and granddaughter. My cousin (her nephew) visited after living in the U.K. to attend his father’s funeral. He brought his Scottish wife, the first time our family met her. She’s a tall, sturdy woman, and upon being introduced, rushed over and got my mother in a bear hug, practically lifting her off her feet. In retrospect it was funny, and we all love Ellen now. But at the time, poor Mom. 🤭
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
Hugs = an opportunity for someone to sue you for sexual harassment.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
That sucks, I actually love hugs