Do you think you're hard to love?

You’re definitely not hard to love. You’re kind. Compassionate. Warm. Generous and a great communicator. The foundation love is built on. So, it’s not a you thing. Trust me on that.

I don’t think I’m hard to love. But I do I think it’s hard for me to reciprocate love in some cases and that can cause some issues. And if I’m being painfully honest, I haven’t felt the true aura of romantic love in a good number of years…far too many for me to admit. But I try to convince myself that that’s okay. Just like I try to convince myself it’s okay if I never feel that aura touch my skin again. Some days it’s hard to accept though.

I don't think you're hard to love. Maybe you find it a bit hard to be loved? Although if the right person loves you...

As for me, I'm the wrong person to ask. History certainly suggests I'm hard to love so i guess there's truth to it, but it's a tough thing to be objective about

I definitely can be. I'm pretty strange, I come with a lot of baggage both physically and emotionally.

I also manage to make a lot of people smile in spite of it though, so I don't think it all matters too much at the end of the day. :)

Yep, my depression can take down even the most determined. And I don’t blame them one bit. It’s a brutal adversary.

I disagree Bex, you're very loveable, perhaps you are just not around the right set of folks.

As for me I transcend all of this sort of thing and is thus not applicable for my hermetic method of being.

Im impossible to love. My own so called parents didn’t even want me. I’ve never once had someone say they loved me, romantic or otherwise. Honestly I don’t blame them even chatgpt only rated me a 5 out of 10 which is putting it nicely.

You on the other hand just need to put yourself out there. I can maw a dating profile for you.

Yes, without a shadow of a doubt. I didn't used to be as a child but then it all went a bit wrong. I would say that I'm easy to appreciate as a friend but more than that is highly unlikely and I wouldn't advise it either.

I don't know. I don't even know what people want anymore. There's one guy who keeps telling me he loves me even if he knows a lot of weird things about me and I've been pushing him away for years. I'm not interested. So...it always depends on the person I guess.

Lately it's been more about me finding hard to feel love so I rather feel like love is wasted on me.

No. not at all, i am actually incredibly easy to love. I just have an issue with trusting that those claiming to have that love are being genuine. I'm so used to being harmed that anything to the contrary feels alien most of the time.🤷🏿🥺 it's taken some getting used to.

Yes, I have anxiety, OCD, depression and tourette's syndrome and I have a special needs child as well. So yes I am

I am hard to love I know I am because I’ve been shown that but to be loved by the right person is wonderful

I push people away, never knew until recently what it was called: Avoidance, I’m also Anxious, some major childhood crap there. Working on it though. 🤗🤗

Since our love is a sisterly love I can’t answer this.

In the spirit of the old joke,anyplace is within walking distance if you have the time...anybody is gonna be loved,in time..you already have experienced it,QED,loveable

You already have many love letters in the comments⬇

I have been told it's easy to love me.

Maybe and I’m definitely hard to figure out.

I know I am. Not in the sense that I'm not worthy.

I think so...

YOU are a natural Love Child.

You don't hear it, because you leave them speechless.

You gotta earn it.. 🤜

You saucy flirt!!! you intoxicate me.... forgive me😝

It's impossible to love me.