How often do you think about past lovers?

I don't have any. My wife talks with a couple of hers once or twice a year. She says that she doesn't really think about them except when they call.

I have one i think about and she died. She is in the same churchyard as my parents so when i go to there grave to tidy and put flowers on i always go and say hello to her.

She preferred another guy to me, so went with him. I never really thought about her after that. Then, a few years later I saw her in a bar. Her partner was laughing about something with his male friends and she sat apart at the table looking miserable. She saw me and smiled. I could tell she was pleased to see me. She clearly wanted to talk. I spoke to her and she asked me to sit down. I told her I was meeting someone and said goodbye.

Often. I even try to turn it off, but without warning, I will jump back to a memory and wish i could relive it. I am not wishing it had been otherwise necessarily. I just wish I could relive specific moments once again. a song will take me back in time like nothing else. And, I wish I had better control of my dreams.

More than I want to but it's because she's the mother of my kids and she disappeared on us a few years ago but they still ask about her

One girlfriend before meeting wife and been together since may 1979

I would not wish her any harm and don't even know if she is alive or dead

Hardly ever.... No matter how they are doing now.
I try to keep what memories i have as positive in the most part.
Two in particular i throw out of my thoughts if they enter.
- some aren't worth remembering.

all of mine lives or lived in California. I live in southeast now. so many. it fades away.

Once or twice a year. So far none are doing well in life (of the ones I can keep track of, that is), but I can only wish that changes.

Not so much a lover but i girl i knew in 1987-8. We hung out a few times. She was the most beautiful girl I'd ever set eyes on. I remember the first time i saw her like it was yesterday .

I try not to

Never

I think about one in particular every single day.

whenever.. but not romantically anymore

Rarely. But when I do the memories are great!

I used to but I moved on

Almost never lol except for one that I slept with recently. I feel like she might be mad at me

Occasionally. Life has a way of reminding you sometimes.

Never

Frequently

If I’m honest most days

I don’t really have any in the past.

Almost never. It's been 35 years. I haven't seen any of them in about 30 years. I hope they are all doing well.

When the wifi goes out i wonder what its up to sometimes

pretty rarely. it don't pay to think too much on the things you leave behind. or those who leave you behind

All the time.

Good for them if they're doing well.

Honestly i domt think about them at all. When im done I'm done?

Pretty often honestly. 🤔

Once in awhile but no idea if they are doing good in life

Just the once.

All the time, but I only go back over memories, not anything going forward

Only when polishing my cane

Well, this is the first time this year. So not often.

The ones that come to mind are those who have passed on. 🥺

I think of a few of them from time to time.

A lot.
It's more old memories resurfacing than keeping track or something like that

Usually only while I self stimulate. I NEVER forget what it felt like to be inside them 🤤😈

Pretty sure mine still watches anime 24/7

hardly ever

but then it was half a century ago

I sometimes jerk off to some of my exes . Not like start to finish but they sometimes pop in there.

Just One, that i constantly question if i made the right choice in pushing her away