HootyTheNightOwl · 41-45

Magenta · F
Since the question says "everyone" away.. I'd lean towards Avoidant attachment issues. AKA fear of getting too close or hurt. Some people can't accept love or feel they lose control or their independence. I'm sure it's nuanced.
IUsedToBeHere · 26-30, MNew
Low self esteem, not believing others when they are nice to you thinking of it only as pity. Being self absorbed and overly ambitious, instead of seeing life in a less selfish way that everyone struggles.
The cure is to realise you don't need to control everything, you aren't the main character, and to change your intentions.. sure you might be messed up, sure some people will push you further into darkness but accept you aren't without flaws and that you'll mess up a lot then you're well on your way to living in less pain.
The cure is to realise you don't need to control everything, you aren't the main character, and to change your intentions.. sure you might be messed up, sure some people will push you further into darkness but accept you aren't without flaws and that you'll mess up a lot then you're well on your way to living in less pain.
Magenta · F
@IUsedToBeHere I really like this response.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Fear, unwillingness to heal, and trust again. Mostly their reasons are all internal and could be remedied if they took the steps to kove forward in healthy ways. Most don't because it's too hard.
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Joke and assume all you want people, but there's a reason and it doesn't involve blaming the person who is afraid.
Ducky · 31-35, F
If life hasn't been kind to one, general distrust due to fear of being hurt again can be a major reason.
Been abused and hurt too often in the past
Gumbodidlo · 56-60, C
Herpes?
Matt85 · 36-40, M
I couldn't tell you 🤷🏻
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Such low self esteem that they think it's only a matter of time before they are figured out and rejected. Then they bring about a self fulfilling prophecy by pushing everyone away and behaving so badly they do eventually get dumped .
BrandNewMan · M
Insecurity and anxiety
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Wisdom?
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Understanding what they thought was love was actually being used.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Fear of commitment or rejection.
Fear of being hurt
shinyplasticlove · 51-55, M
Trust issues.
Journaling4MeAgain · 100+, F
Past abuse..
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
Looking at the bill.
YoMomma ·
Fear. Being smart i guess. 💔 is no joke
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
A need to find inner peace before dealing with anyone else
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Pineapple on pizza
NativePortlander1970 · 51-55
@MasterLee Heathen, pineapple on pizza is bliss
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
Getting burned one to many times
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Having been rejected so many times in the past that you internalize it.
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
They think other people have cooties?
Sooner or later their mask falls off
swirlie · 31-35
When a guy you just met starts talking about his desire to have kids before he even kisses you for the first time.
NativePortlander1970 · 51-55
Calling everyone a nazi/fascist