Not really in like a romantic relationship sort of way. I have friends here that I love and love me back, but I was very careful to set romantic boundaries here from the very beginning and now I’m married to my real life wife. I do suspect a couple girls caught feelings and I was unaware as those relationships went real sour and I couldn’t figure out why at first. I’m really slow about when someone is very into me. lol
@DarkHeaven Yeah I kind of learned to just take whatever happens online as just "fun". If it's meant to turn into anything serious it will but I'm otherwise just here to enjoy myself with whomever is happy to join in. It just sucked that one time because I genuinely liked that person. I opened up to her about everything including my childhood trauma and she was there, until she wasn't. She shared her trauma with me as well so I thought we had something special going. My fault. Won't happen again. 😃
@TheOthetAcc yeah. I got burned on a sort of relationship here really early. We was kinda sorta puppy loving it but she flipped on me because I said my Dr was cute and blocked me. I was really confused about it because we had shared a lot too (trauma wise.) And I said never again and held to it. We handn’t got super close but close enough, as we communicated off site. It stung enough for me to learn that I’m far too fragile emotionally to handle a long distance relationship on a semi anonymous website and I physically need more because of my mental illness issues. I need to be able to hold their hand I guess, basically. I can’t have my lover ghost me and still be okay in life.
Only a few times. One of 'em got really weird though & started making it seem like I cheated on her & broke her heart even though we were barely even friends 😅
@ChiefWalksWith40oz dude, you so didn’t have to put me on blast. we was beautiful together and it’s not my fault I got confused if you you was a lesbian or not. you was giving off the right vibes and all.
Yes, it was awkward and not fun letting him down gently. When I established a boundary he flipped out and ghosted for a few months only to come back and be kind of creepy so I grey rocked my responses until he stopped messaging.
@calicuz Well, it's not that there's "Many," per se, but it's hard to k ow what this "Professing," entails. I get told how they love to see me go, not sure what that means. 😑
@Flenflyys girl if you swang my way at all… especially when you were here before and I was single. Guurrl. I’m just saying . You are hot. And I’d be trying, if you were interested that is. Ha ha. 😅
@DarkHeaven I agree with your wife. She was taking advantage of you and she was using you. Telling you that she loved you and wanted to be with you. You were going through a tough time back then and I could see that in the messages and she cut all of that out.
She’s manipulative but I wouldn’t expect anything less from her. It’s not like she’s got integrity by any means.
