Your son has just brought his new girlfriend into your house and went inside his room and closed the door. Is that okay with you?

Parenting 101
Keep your children safe and healthy.
Teach your children (who are sexual beings) to respect themselves and others.
Teach them about reproduction and how *not* to reproduce
Teach them about STDS
Keep them supplied with condoms because, regardless of how you feel, sexual beings will have sex.

If I have done all of the above, I would try to mind my own business.

Yes, because his little sister had no respect for closed doors. Privacy was an illusion at our house, so he wouldn't go too far with his girlfriend.

Never bothered me, but my son had very solid sex ed, and we talked about both the physical and emotional aspects of sexuality, STD prevention and pregnancy.

Nope. She would be sent home, he would be grounded, and he would also lose the door to his room. He knows the rules and what will happen should he choose to break them. The same goes for my daughter when she starts dating.

you mean he left her out with me?
what the hell was he thinking?
didn't I raise him better than that!

i think it is ok my son often takes his g/f and friends to his bedroom

Nope no matter the age. My house my rules.
Now out in driveway? I won't call cops

Hell no ...that door stays open

Depends on how old they both are

No

I would talk to her, not him about going slow to build the relations if she cares about him, and your house rules.

{@riyon] if they are both of legal age of consent where is the issue 🤷‍♂️

Of course it is okay with me. He is not my son.

None of my business..

How old are they?

Of course. Why wouldn’t it be?

How old?

If he (or she) is underage, not at all. If they’re in your house, it’s your business.

No