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Poll - Total Votes: 47 See Poll Options
Lara08 · F
to love you got to know someone... dont need that for some fun
In my opinion: it's not what I believe, it's all about my feeling (not emotional feelings like love). Maybe the feeling of butterflies in my stomach or the person turning me on as we engage in a conversation.
I am not sure about Love, though. For me, love isn't handed out right off the bat; it's just like trust and respect; you have to earn it.
In my experience, I have experienced neither love nor lust when I first see someone. My thoughts would be like, "Oh hey, a person. Cool."
But when I see an attractive person (in my opinion, everyone's attractive in their own way, minus the people who have an ugly personality or act ugly), I'll look at them and my mind goes, "Goodness, I wonder if their personality is just as attractive as they are." Then I look away from them, "My ugly ass doesn't deserve to look nor think about an attractive (and all other synonyms) person. Don't embarrass yourself by looking at them; you're a zero and they're a 10." I tell myself that because I'm not worthy of an attractive person's love, whether their personality is the same as their attractiveness.
I am not sure about Love, though. For me, love isn't handed out right off the bat; it's just like trust and respect; you have to earn it.
In my experience, I have experienced neither love nor lust when I first see someone. My thoughts would be like, "Oh hey, a person. Cool."
But when I see an attractive person (in my opinion, everyone's attractive in their own way, minus the people who have an ugly personality or act ugly), I'll look at them and my mind goes, "Goodness, I wonder if their personality is just as attractive as they are." Then I look away from them, "My ugly ass doesn't deserve to look nor think about an attractive (and all other synonyms) person. Don't embarrass yourself by looking at them; you're a zero and they're a 10." I tell myself that because I'm not worthy of an attractive person's love, whether their personality is the same as their attractiveness.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
I certainly believe in the sensation of love at first sight. But realistically, you really need to know somebody in order to truly be in love with them.
Pretzel · 70-79, M
in my experience love takes time
lust is instantaneous
lust is instantaneous

SW-User
I think you can be drawn to someone the first time you see them. That has happened to me on a couple of occasions but that’s rare, so it wasn’t love but maybe lust but not in the way I assumed or knew lust to be from other experiences.
TheunderdogofNY · 36-40, M
No. I think at least for me it’s a bit more lust. It takes more than looks for me to fall in love. Once you find out more about the person than it all falls together or not.
exexec · 70-79, C
I believe in lust at first sight that might lead to love later on.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
love, what is love?
barely ever felt it, never been In Love
doubt it can happen in an instant
lust happens weekly
barely ever felt it, never been In Love
doubt it can happen in an instant
lust happens weekly

SW-User
it's chemical... biology... lust. love could develop and then take one of several possible courses.

SW-User
No I believe in energy. I can't fall in love with someone I don't know but I can feel if I'm open to trying .
goodlil666 · 51-55, M
Love at first site? I know it is. When I met Kim on a blind date that took a friend over an hour to convince me to go on. I had several bad experiences on blind dates so was beyond hesitant for another one. I will never forget the first time our eyes met it was like looking into each other's soul. Several days later she admitted that she had the exact same feeling when our eyes met that first time and every time after.
SnowedIn · 51-55, M
Absolutely both!
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I've fallen in love at first site a number of times. And I've fallen in lust at first site a number of times, as well.
Teslin · M
My opinion, Lust.
True love can only happen after the connection is made. The person can be a real a$$hole. You would never know unless you really know a person.
True love can only happen after the connection is made. The person can be a real a$$hole. You would never know unless you really know a person.
romell · 51-55, M
Love at first sight is only in movies ..its lust n then.love ..lust not necessarily sexually but by virtue of possession
WhatLifeIsFor · 41-45, M
when i was young i belived in.love at first sight. now i believe in lust at fist sight
TexChik · F
My husband does , it took me a few months to realize he was right.

SW-User
I think it’s a bit of both, lust first then developing to love.
antonioioio · 70-79, M
What's ment to be, won't pass you, The younger you are, lust comes more into it, you get wiser, as you get older and young woman grow up way faster than men
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Shaveit · 61-69, M
I love lust😛
HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M
Both
Fawma123 · 46-50, M
I was inlust with my wife first then came big love later
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Both.