I feel like I’m always doing the wrong thing

you (like me) need a bit of rewiring

Surely this comes down to the facts that you can't please everyone all of the time and you're only human. I very much doubt that you do anything with malice or wilful disregard. You do your very best and you care. Give yourself a break, my friend 🤍

I think that's very common - especially in those "Somebody has to do SOMETHING!" moments.

Same girl … same!

Those who love you will appreciate the effort no matter how sideways it might go.

Username checks out.

It's ok 💜

I have this too sometimes

Isn’t it time to light the last one…
happy Hanukkah.

The wrong thing in your eyes !

May not be wrong in others

I've had those moments too
Being stuck in that cycle sucks because the hole feels as if it only goes deeper

maybe we're twins

I can’t imagine that. Give yourself a break and don’t be so hard on yourself.

You help people to your detriment at times.