I feel so hurt and angry

I can't give you advise on that .
A lot happened me in the way your explaining it .
All I can say is I got a nervous breakdown from it at the start and after having so much years of putting up with me my nervous breakdown went away . I do get very angry at times and as what you said you rather be alone so do I .
See when your on your own at the start the loneliness can be like looking for water in a desert but eventually the water appears and you don't feel as lonely as before .
I must admit at the start when all of this happened I tried to kill myself 3 times in 6 weeks cause there was so much fear in my life but that past .
I fell out of a long time friendship before with someone cause I wouldn't takes sides on either party . I prefer to be mutual and have no involvement in any part .
Why ? It's all drama .
I'm not taking away your hurt and pain but you get stronger and stronger as time goes on .
Once you know your not bad that's all that counts but what happens why you think you look bad is that you end up feeling very subconscious around people or aware on what's being said .
That's brings on the fear and anger .
I always goes back to the bible with that stuff .
" Don't put no false Gods before you "
" The Lord is my shepherd there's nothing I shall want "
" You can have the whole world but loose your soul "
There very valid especially around the stuff your talking about .
You just have to pray .
You re act you be the one ending up apologising.

Want the idea of awesome revenge? Live your best life ignoring her and protecting people you love. Do not let toxic people and their enablers have access to you and your loved ones. You certainly can do without them.

What part of the world do you live in? Certainly you don’t live in north America or Europe based on what you’ve described

I think that you will have to simply ignore her. Behave as though she does not exist and refuse to get involved in any talk about her. Erase her from your mind.

Sounds like you are dealing with a case of projected guilt

You should ignore her completely. She Is nobody to judge you.

I used to know someone like this. It's extremely manipulative behavior.

I learned to just stop reacting. If they say something mean, ignore it.

Can you give me an example of some of the things she does?

She sounds mentally unstable

She must be older than u.

Its a bitter world.

Its digital world. Record her act n share with those who.supported her

This is so evil of her.

You should deal with her indirectly.

Maybe make some pamphlets and put in her mailbox or at her door step..

Aunty meeting ex-husband when husband not around

Aunty strips for ex husband to watch from street

She is a woman. For your sanity it is best to stay away.

Pm me I'll help you

An woman? Really?

she’s jealous of u.