I feel so hurt and angry

An women near by keep making baseless accusations on my character, without checking, whenever i talk to any guys or men. I heard her ex-husband slept around when with her and had an affair. She keep accusing me of sleeping around and seducing men, i once proved her wrong, instead of apologizing, she blamed me for being modern and not traditional and decent like her. It all started when i once talked with her ex-husband. She be mean and interfere other people in it. Say many hurtful words. I lashed out on her once and people think i am bad and take her side blindly. She tries to provoke me and make my every action and mistakes seem like i am a bad person. She once even went as far a involve my family old dog, asked my parents to leave it on streets bcuz it's old and useless, can't even walk. I stilll can't beleive how can someone be so self-important and cruel. If i get angry at her, people will bully me, but she keeps provoking me. How can i deal with her and people around me, they take her side blindly and bully me.

After she involved old dog, i lost my temper on her and pointed out each and every mistake of her, i hate everyone and this world, why r people so cruel and insensitive. I rather be alone than have friends or people who support her and make excuses for her bad behaviours.

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wintersecret · 41-45, M

She must be older than u.

Its a bitter world.

Its digital world. Record her act n share with those who.supported her

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@wintersecret they know, she does it often publicly, they don't tell her mistake to her to not hurt her out of sympathy, bcuz her teen son died.

and yes, she is older, im in my early 20s and she in her early 50s

wintersecret · 41-45, M

@sahi81 ooh meant she is already disturbed person.

Best for u to aviod path with her.

Not easy for a mother to get out of that painful loss.

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@wintersecret i do try to avoid her as much as possible. But she comes and tries to provoke me and she went as far as involving innocent dog in it.

And also i am really hurt due to her behaviour and it hurts me that the fact she doesn't care how her actions effects me and never seem to acknowledge her mistakes. She tried to put all blame on me whenever i try to express my feelings

Tbh i am also dealing with lot of depression in life.

wintersecret · 41-45, M

@sahi81 she is just finding excuse to fight m take her agony out..

sahi81 · 26-30, F

@wintersecret yes, whatever she says or does, people will make excuses for her behaviour. And no accountability. i think she is not happy with her life, taht's why she wants sympathy from others and lash out on me and compare me with herself. I heard she went through multiple divorces . She is single now. Whenever we have arguments, She dunno how to communicate her feelings without lashing out or blaming, and also can't see to understand where i am coming from even when she shames me for not understanding that she have trust issues with women who act like me. She thinks she is justified in putting accusations on me bcuz i act like a Slut. After she involved old dog, i lost my temper on her and pointed out each and every mistake of her, i hate everyone and this world, why r people so cruel and insensitive. I rather be alone than have friends or people who support her and make excuses for her bad behaviours.

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