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I was rejected, 1and I need to vent

I went to meet a girl I had met in a Facebook group in a town 348 miles from my house. She seemed very attracted to me, she counted down every day before we meet. When we saw each other in person we spent the whole day laughing and kissing, but the next day she simply left me in her city alone and didn't even say goodbye to me claiming that things were going really well and she "stuck" and couldn't see me. Since then, I have had sudden rages just imagining what happened.

That's it
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
Move on with life. You're alive - you're free - you're living your best life.

348 miles is around 500 km and that's a *long* distance to go to meet someone in person, but plenty of people fly half way around the world to meet people they've only chatted to online.

She was probably seeing other men at the same time as you, and decided on someone else, or nobody.

Accept her decision and the best way to show strength is to move on with dignity.
Magethemago · 26-30
@zonavar68 It wouldn't be a problem for her to meet someone else but the way she treated me. I treated her very well during the time we were together in person and she humiliated me. If she just accompanied me and then said if she didn't want to it would be fine, but unfortunately she treated me worse than an animal
RedBaron · M
@Magethemago Let it go. You can’t read minds and know why anyone you don’t really know behaves a certain way.

Try meeting people closer to home through friends and such.
BeJeweled · F
She must have realized that the two of you weren't a good match so she dumped you cold turkey. She should have met up with you and explained why she didnt think you two would work out. Online friendships are different than in person relationships. She saw that and was hoping you'd just disappear. It was immature and high schoolish of her.
Next time you meet someone get to know them in the flesh first by meeting for coffee closer to where you live. Unfortunately you took a risk which backfired on you.
Magethemago · 26-30
@BeJeweled That's not a point. The point is that she left me there alone. I was at least a friend
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
Weird, maybe she is married or attached
I'm sorry that happened.
Magethemago · 26-30
@Spoiledbrat thank you
Hi :). Can i ask something but dont want to ask it publicly so anyone can see coz some people might make fun of me. Would appreciate it if youll send me a message so i can replay you with my question (coz for some reason i can't message first). Thanx :)
robertsnj · 56-60, M
why do you think she met you in the first place--that is a long way apart. How much different online was she compared to in person and same question to you? Do you think she is actually single?

Sorry for your pain.
in10RjFox · M
Treat this as a good experience for this is quite common. The next time you will be more wary and invite to meet mid way. Both should not be in the home ground so that both are fully dedicated to the date.
Get over it. She said no. Learn the meaning. You have issues. Get some help. Are you going to behave like this each time things do not go the way you want? Tslk to your dad. Or your friends. Maybe a counsellor via a crisis line.
Missbirdie1986 · 36-40, F
maybe she also wants you she just lives in the opposite world than you
@Missbirdie1986 Hi :). Can i ask something but dont want to ask it publicly so anyone can see coz some people might make fun of me. Would appreciate it if youll send me a message so i can replay you with my question (coz for some reason i can't message first). Thanx :)
Magethemago · 26-30
@Missbirdie1986 opposite world?
Missbirdie1986 · 36-40, F
@Magethemago yes she lives in an parallel universe
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
You were kissing the first time you met each other and then she said she wasn't interested anymore? Something is odd here but listen to other people and let it go.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
All you can do is forget about her. Raging isn’t cool
Magethemago · 26-30
@Jenny1234 The way she treated me. I made an effort and she simply gave me humiliation in return... It's something that messes with my ego
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@Magethemago it’s certainly frustrating. It’s one of those life lessons we all go through. hopefully it never happens to you again.
Magethemago · 26-30
@Jenny1234 thanks Jenny
It's hard to get to know someone on the internet. Sometimes people we talk to aren't who we think they are.
meggie · F
Maybe she didn't feel good enough for you.
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RedBaron · M
@Magethemago Quit trying to analyze it and just let it go.
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@Elisbch Hi :). Can i ask something but dont want to ask it publicly so anyone can see coz some people might make fun of me. Would appreciate it if youll send me a message so i can replay you with my question (coz for some reason i can't message first). Thanx :)
Elisbch · M
@someonefromsomewhere1

It seems very weird that every one of your posts say the same message that you just sent me here. So NO!
I don't know what you're up to. All of your postings look suspicious because they all request private messages to be exchanged.

 
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