I was rejected, 1and I need to vent

I went to meet a girl I had met in a Facebook group in a town 348 miles from my house. She seemed very attracted to me, she counted down every day before we meet. When we saw each other in person we spent the whole day laughing and kissing, but the next day she simply left me in her city alone and didn't even say goodbye to me claiming that things were going really well and she "stuck" and couldn't see me. Since then, I have had sudden rages just imagining what happened.

That's it

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Move on with life. You're alive - you're free - you're living your best life.

348 miles is around 500 km and that's a *long* distance to go to meet someone in person, but plenty of people fly half way around the world to meet people they've only chatted to online.

She was probably seeing other men at the same time as you, and decided on someone else, or nobody.

Accept her decision and the best way to show strength is to move on with dignity.

Magethemago · 31-35

@zonavar68 It wouldn't be a problem for her to meet someone else but the way she treated me. I treated her very well during the time we were together in person and she humiliated me. If she just accompanied me and then said if she didn't want to it would be fine, but unfortunately she treated me worse than an animal

RedBaron · M

@Magethemago Let it go. You can’t read minds and know why anyone you don’t really know behaves a certain way.

Try meeting people closer to home through friends and such.