It's simple, actually. People put the blame on you bc you're not confident enough to speak up.

Source: I used to be the same

You are clearly above pointless fights. Try to reason with them as calmly as possible. Don't suffer in complete silence.

Look up "the family scapegoat" or "the problem child"


It is an abuse that happens when people seek to attack your self esteem because you're an actual human being. You are honest. You also believe other people do not lie, deceive, or abuse. You stand there confused and do not fight back because you consider it might be true. But see past the gaslighting

Some people are cruel manipulators who will use our natural understanding of truth to hurt you. It is not your fault

You're dealing with evil. And remember this:

When a snake bites you, you do not try to catch the snake and try to explain to it why you did not deserve death. You instead get as far away as you can and try to treat the poison before you die from it. Take care of yourself. Know that NOT EVERYONE IS HONEST. And the hardest people to deal with are liars. You will find them being so hardheaded. Learn to be strong in their face. They really hope you just take it and believe it. And yes. It can be your own mother or sister. They can be the most evil to us at our weakest. I know what it is like. Just be strong and realize you can see reality clearly

I don't know what to say, but you have to stick up for yourself tell them to fck off if they start accusing you of things you didn't do or if they try to be little you in any way.

Talking to them about how they act is not going to do any good.
At this point it is such a habit for them that even if you were able to get them to stop they would just pick up the habit soon after.

Yeah the only thing you can really do is concentrate on getting away from them and cut ties.

What are they doing to you?

Punch them

Remember IT only seems big, so carry your conviction and they will listen and back down eventually.