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Do you remember the world without smartphones ?

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ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SW-User I had a rather eerie experience of that a few years ago.

I belong to a club that has self-catering accommodation available to members and bona-fide guest groups. One Saturday evening I was the only member present alongside a guest group of about ten or twelve members.

They barely said a word to each other, let alone to me, and I felt I could not try to talk to them.

One was busy on her lap-top, apparently for work or study. A couple in the corner were engrossed in another lap-top: probably a film or game.

The rest was each in a hermetic 'tap-tap-scroll-scroll' bubble on his or her too-smart-phone.

I think I found something to read for about two hours then went to the pub, leaving this silent order's digital scriptorium to its own isolationism.


Maybe they were conversing with each other, but had lost the skill to do so by Nature's way!
SW-User
@ArishMell Hi, yes, it happens a lot. Often in a bus I'll take a quick poll of the passengers and often over half are looking down at their phones. Truth to tell, I sometimes read on my Kindle.....😀 But I do often try to chat and have got to know one or two people who often seem to be on the same bus at the same time.

We try to encourage our grandchildren to spend less time on phones and tablets but it can be a losing battle. Tat said, they do read a lot and mum takes them out and about as often as possible.
revenant · F
@ArishMell @SW-User yes I see that a lot too...how sad and desolate

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
I do indeed. It went from having an amazing device that let you do so much from the palm of your hand...

...to an annoying obligation that requires you to have your smartphone with you at all times because so much of your life is conducted through it.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@SumKindaMunster Well, you choose to let it rule your life, don't you?

One reason I do not have one! I do have a portable telephone but I refuse to be its slave, it is not connected to the Internet, and it spends more time switched off than on.
SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
paulisretired · 51-55, M
@ArishMell That's what I want....a phone, not a computer in my pocket that keeps tabs on me.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Yes. I lived 15 years of my life before the first IPhone was released. I myself didn't get a smartphone until several years later. I wanted to keep my button phone and hissed at touch screens. 😂
Nanori · F
@Queendragonfly lmao same
Pretzel · 61-69, M
and actually having to REMEMBER somebody's number to call them from a ...pay phone
revenant · F
@Pretzel YES
@Pretzel But there was a phone book hanging there some times
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Suggestmeone You could even buy small, pro-forma address-books to create your own directories! (Still can, I expect.)
Musicman · 61-69, M
Yes I do. I have only lived one third of my life with a Smart phone and only half my life with a cellphone. In my younger days we didn't even have calculators. My best friends dad was an engineer. I still remember when he got one and showed it to us. It was a Texas Instruments. It only added, subtracted, multiplied and devided. We were only in elementary school. He showed us how it worked. We were not allowed to touch it and it cost $75 which was huge money 50 years ago.
revenant · F
@Musicman I had a boyfriend once who really boasted at working at Texas instruments. All the time. The name did not mean shit to me so no response back from me....
Axeroberts · 56-60, M
Holy smokes I remember life before computers. 🤣
ElRengo · 70-79, M
@Axeroberts
The one that run my first program at Uni, Clementina.
Axeroberts · 56-60, M
@ElRengo cool. I remember using cards.
ElRengo · 70-79, M
@Axeroberts Those ones, yes
JustDJ76 · 46-50, M
Yes. Much simpler too
JustDJ76 · 46-50, M
@revenant I do turn mine off at times or leave it at home and don’t care who likes it.
revenant · F
@JustDJ76 so do I. I like to leave at home or turn it off. But I get people " why did not you answer your phone ????
I just want peace and quiet. How hard is it to understand that ?
JustDJ76 · 46-50, M
@revenant They are selfish to some degree I suppose. We are in an on demand generation and they expect it out of people too
I do. It was so fun! World without online Shopping and my childhood was great. 🙂🙏
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@littlepuppywantanewlife We had mail-order shopping, and still do, which amounts to the same thing, though.

It was amusing looking through all those little mail-order catalogues that uses to fall out of magazines like the [i]Radio Times;[/i] selling the oddest collections of things you don't need but can't do without. From "sonic" mole-repellers to nose-hair clippers; humane spider-traps to the sort of kitchen utensils you use until the novelty wears off.
Way before any portable phones. Have used an old crank phone in a phone booth by a country store. Also had a party line where you had to share a line usually with a very nosy other person,
@revenant That was in mid seventies in the country. We would hear her pick up her phone, just like sharing a phone call now by joining calls. We really talked a lot of crazy when we knew she was listening. You could yell for her to hang up but never until we started messing with her
SW-User
@revenant Just as well. There were usually nosy neighbors listening in on the line.
revenant · F
@SW-User wow....🤥
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Yes. I don't think they go back more that perhaps two decades, though portable telephones generally as we know them, started to appear in the 1980s.

Portable two-way radios have a much longer history, but as limited-coverage instruments for specialist use in private networks, such as by the military, emergency-services and taxi-drivers.
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
Yes. I remember not have a cell phone at all
revenant · F
@Jonjdw me too....so free...
kentex35 · 100+, M
As a kid living in Louisville was cool in the summer since it was right at the edge where central time zone started and it would be light outside until 10pm in the summer. I was in my 40s almost when cell phones where popular at 200 bucks for 200 minutes. Now I feel empty without it lol. Sometimes I even call people .
No one can tell me smartphones aren't as addictive as narcotics. I know a lot of people who can't put down their phone for more than a few minutes at a time. I know people who spend most of their free time staring at their phone. Behavioral changes.
revenant · F
@robingoodfellow they are like hypnotised
Yes I do... and I remember a good time.... people talked to each other more, when you met on the street you greeted each other and looked at each other... the world seemed smaller, cosier and life slower and more contemplative.
ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
Yup.. now a days... people have their faces in their phones even when they are eating. I see that at restaurants..no one talking to each other...it's a crying shame.
The phones get smarter and humans get dumber!!
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
I remember the world long before mobile phones
As youngsters we were always told to keep 2p in our pockets in case we needed to use a payphone on the street
revenant · F
@Picklebobble2 I remember keeping my change too to use pay phones. And feeling no guilt whatsoever leaving my first flip phone at home.
Thinkerbell · 41-45, F
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Slade · 56-60, M
@Thinkerbell need Maxwell Smart's shoephone too
@Thinkerbell that's pretty cool
SubtropicalSharlana · 51-55, F
Yes! I’ve been trying to limit my phone time lately, but it’s difficult to adjust to not getting on my phone or tablet when a pressing thought or question comes to mind.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
@ElRengo When I was a small child I went to the train station with my Dad and I could hear the telegraph clicking away in the background. The station master wasn't paying any attention to it so I assumed the message was for someone else. Here in Canada the telegraph system was run by the railroad companies.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I got my first in 2016, it wasn't that long time ago.
calicuz · 51-55, M
@CrazyMusicLover

Oh no, my 1st Smartphone was probably 05'. It was too much phone for me back then, so I took it back. 😂
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@calicuz That was when I got my first cellphone, I think. 2005 or 2006.
calicuz · 51-55, M
@CrazyMusicLover

Yeah, I was a late bloomer as well. 😂
calicuz · 51-55, M
Yes, I actually memorized my friends' phone numbers back then.

revenant · F
@calicuz so did I ..I was carrying around this little pocket book with numbers 😂
calicuz · 51-55, M
@revenant

I had one of those calendar books that had a section for phone numbers in the front pages. 😂
revenant · F
@calicuz guilty too 😂
Yeah. Everyone seemed to stand and walk a lot more upright.
revenant · F
@BizSuitStacy that is kind of funny really. I was joking that there would be lots of neck problems later. And years later.......................😂
MartinII · 70-79, M
@BizSuitStacy And watched where they were going.
@revenant you were right!
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
Yes I do

Look at my age. I remember 8 track tapes, vacuum tubes, and AM only radios
paulisretired · 51-55, M
@HumanEarth Yessir, that was the good old days.
Wiseacre · F
Of course..ppl were nicer, more polite. Now they bump into u without saying sorry.
Nanori · F
I had a tiny notebook for phone numbers
revenant · F
@Nanori so did I
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
Of course. But the idea has been around for far longer than I have.
Iwillwait · M
Yes, a much simpler time. Money had real value.
revenant · F
@Iwillwait I have all kind of stuff on my phone now like Google Pay and such...fuck that !
Of course! No one Dared to block none and life was cool.
I remember the world without computers.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Mamapolo2016 Indeed, and then when they did start to appear they were used for purely scientific and administrative purposes.
originnone · 61-69, M
I remember when razor phones were all the rage.
Morrigan · F
Sure do, that is how I grew up
RuyLopez · 56-60, M
Yes. It was wondrous.
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
Yes it was wonderful
Yes. I miss those days.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Very much so.
You mean when people would actually look at, acknowledge, and talk to each other without text?
Yes, I do.
Some dumbazz woman walked right into my shopping cart yesterday with her face buried in her smart phone.
SW-User
Oh yes. There was a pay phone on practically every street corner. Now, if your cell phone abruptly dies on you, you'd have to go into a store and see if you can borrow a phone from someone in customer service. 😐
4meAndyou · F
I remember being extremely cranky about being forced to buy one. I had planned to start college again, at Bridgewater, and they REQUIRED a cell phone.

I was almost "Get off my lawn" cranky about it. The damned phone would ring while I was driving, and before I learned to ignore it I would almost drive off the road in a panic trying to [i]find[/i] the damned thing in my bag. And it was ALWAYS a telemarketer.

More than anything, I resented the IMPOSED concept that my time was no longer my own, and that an institution could arbitrarily rule that I MUST be subject to contact at any hour of the day or night.
Sure, but I think when you found a family and develop several commitments regarding their health and wellbeing, it becomes more meaningful.
ABCDEF7 · M
I remember when first pagers came out in the market. And we even didn't had landline phone at our home
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
Yeah. So hard to contact my dad when he'd come to pick me from school ugghhh I fcking hated it
paulisretired · 51-55, M
I remember the world without phones, at least not everyone had one.
MartinII · 70-79, M
Certainly do - without any kind of mobile phone.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
Barely. They came out when I was in middle school
Jeremi · 41-45, M
such a simpler time back then
exexec · 61-69, C
I remember when push button phones were a revolutionary replacement for rotary dial phones. I even used the wall phone with a crank to wake up the operator so you could give her (always a "her") the number or the name of the person you were calling. (It was a very small town.)
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
I remember a time before TV too
SW-User
Yes, had to remember phone numbers
Baremine · 70-79, C
I remember a world without Biden.
Guardian · 56-60, M
Sadly, I do!

 
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