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Were you unsure of your loved ones' after death wishes?

I apologize I know I've written so many posts of my dad's battle with aggressive cancer and his passing. It's my only outlet really and it was so sudden it still feels like a blur ...

But now I'm wondering what my dad wished for after passing.. burial or cremation. My mom didn't ever discuss it either with him so she's doing cremation.
I guess I'm ok with it but I do wish he was at a cemetery. I guess also what matters most is that he's always with us in spirit.💞
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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
I knew what my husband wanted, we talked a lot about everything. He believed as I do that the body is just a vehicle which we have use of for a while. Even though his death was a huge shock and totally unexpected, I knew that he wanted to be able to help as many people as possible with organ donation and then be cremated so it was important that I honored that. Unfortunately, his organs were shutting down and nothing was viable apart from his cornea but I found it a comfort that he was able to give those, my husband was very artistic and he saw beauty in everything.
@PatientlyWaiting25 that is beautiful and i believe you loved each other very much he is in a better place i believe and watching over you at this moment 🫂🫂
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@masterofyou Thank you. I believe that too x