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A girl from my training class died yesterday. We found out today.

She is on my new team.


She died from a head-on collision Sunday morning.

It makes me sad.


I'll always remember her.
In training, the teachers said "Let's go around and name a time you went through something that did [b]not[/b] turn out to be a good thing." Basically, can you name an experience that didn't make you think afterward, "I see the positivity."


She was the only one who spoke up.

I thought about my mom dying, of course. But, I didn't want to discuss it. I'm sure lots of people thought of things they can't make sense of. She spoke up. She said she went through a traumatic experience at work. People died in front of her, and she ran. She said, "If you can make sense out of that... whatever. It was traumatic. The most traumatic experience I've ever been through."


I always liked her after that. I remember her looking me in my eye as she was telling the story. I was listening intently as everyone else had read it on the news. I hadn't heard about it. So, I gave her my attention.


Then, she dies. Maybe everyone else had already heard that on the news, too.


😔
kaykay22 · 31-35, F
It sounds like she needed to be heard. She was possibly struggling with survivor guilt. If she was focusing on you, she knew she was being heard by at least one person and that was probably enough for her not to feel so alone in that thought. RIP to her and I hope you're doing okay as can be x
WillaKissing · 56-60
My condolences to all the people who knew her.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Shocked and devastating news.

Try and not take this to heart at all, talk to your manager about the way you feel
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@perceptivei yes feel grieve, talk to a professional counsellor if you need - no offence intended
perceptivei · 36-40, F
@nedkelly I don't need a counselor. Other people might... they were close to her. I simply don't like death.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@perceptivei take care of yourself as well
When I think about all the wonderful people that I know and love. That died and senseless car accidents. I’m starting to hate cars. There are other ways to travel we don’t all have to put ourselves at the wheel of death machine. I’m sorry

I feel for your loss, it touches me
Musicman · 61-69, M
I am sorry for your loss. ☹️
She had a connection with you, or at least could feel....trusting enough to just tell you. Thats a great compliment to you and your bond, even then.

RIP to her, and bless you both.
4meAndyou · F
No one can tell you that they know how you feel...because the loss is raw and new...but we can grieve with you.
Tiredish · F
Oh that ls horrible, Im so sorry. :(
robertsnj · 56-60, M
nice tribute. Training for what?
SW-User
Grieving is a personal experience. Depending on who you are and the nature of your loss, your process of grieving will be different from another person's experience.


 
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