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I saw a man die today

It started like any other day.
The same morning routine followed by the drive to work.

2 minutes before my exit I saw what appeared to be a blanket fly up into the air.
But as it began it's descent I knew it was a man.

He was a motorcyclist who had just struck a deer.

I stopped and ran to the guy, arriving just as another man did.
A third man was walking towards us and I asked him to call 911.

The motorcyclist was lying on his side breathing into a puddle of his own blood.
The ripples of his breaths clearly visible.
His eyes were open, but he was unresponsive.

I stopped the other guy from moving him fearful of us doing more damage.
Within seconds a State police DOT guy arrived on the scene.
He must have been in the traffic to arrive so quickly.
I had my hand on the man's shoulder and was trying to use comfort phrases like "Hang in there" Help is coming"

A few minutes passed in a blur.
Then the officer asked us to return to our vehicles and move our cars to make room for emergency response.
I said I didn't want to go until the EMTs arrived.

The cop looked at me and said politely..., "Sir, he's dead. There's nothing you can do for him."
I looked back down and the ripples were gone.
Eyes still open. Pain written on his face.

I didn't know him.
But i'll never forget him.....
The last thing I noticed was his wedding ring.
This is gonna stick with me for a while I think...
LaLumieri · 51-55, F
I know that this is something that will stay with you for a while. I've had many instances where I have been able to be there for someone in their last moments... And of course, you become sensitive about it but it helps to think of it this way; (at least for me anyway) you were able to be there for someone in their last moments he could have been all alone out there or maybe there was someone that wouldn't have treated him the way that you did. I read somewhere that even though the body may not be responsive when the person passes they can still hear things for another 20 minutes so I hope I've comforted you a little knowing that he heard your words of comfort and kindness he was very blessed to have you there. I'd like to say thank you for being there in that moment and being a wonderful human being.
Rocky101 · 51-55, M
@LaLumieri very sad 😢
HikingMan · 51-55, M
I'd like to thank everyone who reacted or commented.
I couldn't bring myself to place a HEART on any replies, as they would seem out of place to me on this post. I did read them all and do appreciate the words and sentiments.

It was an event I am still processing and coming to grips with. Sleep has been a small issue for me this week, and I'm left with some emotions that are hard to describe.

I really just wanted to thank those who've expressed their sympathy or understanding.

Peace,
Rob
BlueVeins · 22-25
You sound like a really good person. I'm so very sorry you had to be a part of that.
Most people do not deal with dead or dying people on a regular basis. You are in shock. You will likely see this man in your mind for some time. You may dream about this. He didn't stand a chance. You and the others did all you could do. He might have even heard your words as hearing is the last sense you lose. Grief is grief even with a stranger. This will bring back memories of your son too. Rob. Be gentle on yourself. Good night.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
You were kind to stay with him and comfort him in his final moments. There was nothing else you could have done. I hope you can stop replaying it in your mind and move past it soon.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
You comforting him was so gracious. His final day on this planet was at least hearing a warm message. What a sad day, Im sorry. I hope he is somewhere feeling goodness or calm.
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
Sorry to hear that, it happened something similar to me a couple of years ago, in the summer between lockdowns. I send hugs.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Oh how terrible. My condolences to you and good thoughts to his family.
It's unfortunate but no one can fight the inevitable.
Take care.
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
With that. You'll see life from a different understanding
caccoon · 36-40
So good of you to stop to help. I'm sorry it had this ending, and that you'll be stuck with the memory 💙😔
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
That is traumatic....sending my thoughts.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
swirlie · 31-35, F

Have you made an attempt to contact the man's family somehow?
HikingMan · 51-55, M
@swirlie Read what you will but leave me be or be forever blocked. Maybe your next account can get to me in whatever manner you're attempting here,
swirlie · 31-35, F
@HikingMan

Nice speech! A little goofy, but well intentioned nonetheless.

As for your story about you being witness to another man's death on the highway, it would appear to me by your extremely defensive posturing, that your story is actually a total fake... a complete hoax.

I do not believe that what you have written in your story has actually happened, but instead is your attempt to garner attention for your pitiful self on this website.

You may not know this, but there is a group in this website that is dedicated to fiction writing for those so inclined. Perhaps you should check it out! Perhaps cut and paste your original story there too!
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