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I saw a man die today

It started like any other day.
The same morning routine followed by the drive to work.

2 minutes before my exit I saw what appeared to be a blanket fly up into the air.
But as it began it's descent I knew it was a man.

He was a motorcyclist who had just struck a deer.

I stopped and ran to the guy, arriving just as another man did.
A third man was walking towards us and I asked him to call 911.

The motorcyclist was lying on his side breathing into a puddle of his own blood.
The ripples of his breaths clearly visible.
His eyes were open, but he was unresponsive.

I stopped the other guy from moving him fearful of us doing more damage.
Within seconds a State police DOT guy arrived on the scene.
He must have been in the traffic to arrive so quickly.
I had my hand on the man's shoulder and was trying to use comfort phrases like "Hang in there" Help is coming"

A few minutes passed in a blur.
Then the officer asked us to return to our vehicles and move our cars to make room for emergency response.
I said I didn't want to go until the EMTs arrived.

The cop looked at me and said politely..., "Sir, he's dead. There's nothing you can do for him."
I looked back down and the ripples were gone.
Eyes still open. Pain written on his face.

I didn't know him.
But i'll never forget him.....
The last thing I noticed was his wedding ring.
This is gonna stick with me for a while I think...
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LaLumieri · 51-55, F
I know that this is something that will stay with you for a while. I've had many instances where I have been able to be there for someone in their last moments... And of course, you become sensitive about it but it helps to think of it this way; (at least for me anyway) you were able to be there for someone in their last moments he could have been all alone out there or maybe there was someone that wouldn't have treated him the way that you did. I read somewhere that even though the body may not be responsive when the person passes they can still hear things for another 20 minutes so I hope I've comforted you a little knowing that he heard your words of comfort and kindness he was very blessed to have you there. I'd like to say thank you for being there in that moment and being a wonderful human being.
Rocky101 · 56-60, M
@LaLumieri very sad 😢