hunkalove · 70-79, M
I just say goodbye to it and let go. Something I've learned from meditation. It can be turned into positive energy.

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@hunkalove thanks I'll try this
Magenta · F
Focus on and get involved in other things. The more one sits idle and thinks about it, the more it grows.
Nanori · F
I tried many things but meditation has been the most effective

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I don't, it's all building up.

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Take a serious break from said person for starters.

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Recognize, it's my own. That's a whole process in itself. Recognize, another person also likely has their anger. And if we all didn't do these things, we'd all have effigies a lit in front of all our houses lit up. So I have to snuff my anger, as I imagine they have to too.
Mostly I listen to music.
Mostly I listen to music.
YoMomma ·
Pray for their forgiveness i guess (not that they deserve it but because they don't)
All I can say is I find slowly fading away has worked for me
TheConstantGardener · 56-60, M
The anger subsides with time but the resentment...
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
I light my candles and make them so my confidence goes up
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
It just wanes, I don't have the stamina to hang on to it that long.
Ferric67 · M
If you need help lifting an anvil, let me know
Ontheroad · M
Think sniper rifle 🤣
OogieBoogie · F
Ugh, its HARD.
channel it into rising above, feeling the calm above the turbulent feelings beneath.
Its a long road. Anger, resentment and soooo much frustration is so difficult to let go.
But its not worth your life.
Remember: yes
Forgive them: no
Forgive yourself: yes.
💜
And no, im not over it myself.. but i do have some good days now.....which is nice.
channel it into rising above, feeling the calm above the turbulent feelings beneath.
Its a long road. Anger, resentment and soooo much frustration is so difficult to let go.
But its not worth your life.
Remember: yes
Forgive them: no
Forgive yourself: yes.
💜
And no, im not over it myself.. but i do have some good days now.....which is nice.
Nebula · 41-45, F
Maybe get a punching bag

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@Nebula that doesn't help
caccoon · 36-40
I try to validate and recognise my anger, but not act on it (so that I don't make an ass of myself).
I'm working on it 😬
I'm working on it 😬

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let it hurt and consume you until you realize if you don’t let that shit go it’s going to give you a stroke. I’d rather lose a few weeks to my emotions than a few years off my life trying to suppress valid feelings. Be well
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I try to meditate and sort through my feelings. I am working on it though.
empanadas · 31-35, M
The best revenge is a good peaceful life and success. move on, it hurts them more when they know that they are meaningless in your life