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Do u welcome change, or do u resist it?

I find I'm not as resilient as I used to be.
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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I only welcome a change that is instantly a change for the better. I hate adaptation period. So yes, I usually resist it and if it's in my control, I put it off until I decide it's really necessary and inevitable.
Umile · 41-45, F
@CrazyMusicLover same same
Ontheroad · M
I gave up on resisting change long ago... it's a constant in life and while not always a comfortable thing, it is life.
Sutten · 36-40, F
Depends on the type of change.
Umile · 41-45, F
@Sutten nmh
robertsnj · 56-60, M
i think we all resist change we don't like / some are more apt to admit it than others depending on the change and the speed of that change .

sometimes we have so little control over our circumstances and that resistence is in defiance of the lack of control that we have

it is a cool question for introspection
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Depends on the change.
Umile · 41-45, F
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
There's no way to resist it. Change happens no matter what. Anymore I just go with it. What else can you do?
Wiseacre · F
@LadyBronte go against it!
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Wiseacre I think even if you fight against one change, something else will change. It is the nature of life.
depends

is it change just for the sake of change.

or something meaningful and productive?.
SW-User
It depends . But I’m usually open minded to most things that are gonna improve my life.
Wiseacre · F
@SW-User change is often not an improvement
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I don't embrace it nor shrink from it.
Without change we will have stagnet lives
Depends on the change
AnotherWeirdo · 41-45, M
Eh, I feel like a lot of times the changes that I want are not the ones that end up happening. So... there's some resistance.
Wiseacre · F
@AnotherWeirdo understandably
I welcome it if it's something I want. If not, no, why would I?
Wiseacre · F
I resist manmade changes bc they're never for the better.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
I'm a change agent.
Wiseacre · F
@MarkPaul o, ok...
Bang5luts · M
Welcome. To me, change is always an opportunity for improvement
Umile · 41-45, F
Nowadays, I just roll with it.

Screw worrying.
Wiseacre · F
@Umile easier said....
Umile · 41-45, F
@Wiseacre True. But. I am just now learning that it just wastes time. Now I just fix it and do what I can.
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