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How can I accept that I will never be a petite woman?

I’ve always been jealous of the tiny/petite or smaller women. I’m jealousy of average height and shorter women. I’ve alway been taller and bigger than most women. Probably 95% bigger than most women. I’m 6ft, large built, 235lbs, wide hips, broad shoulders and I feel manly. I’ve been dumped twice for my height and size. My first boyfriend dumped me for a petite, short girl. He broke my heart. I would look on the internet for surgery to make me shorter and have shorter feet but I know it’s impossible. I still look up surgery to make me little shorter. Im currently losing weight. I don’t understand why short or average height women want to be as tall as me! I’m tired of hearing “Oh I wish I was taller/as tall as you! You’re so lucky and you get taken more seriously.”
My friend called me “intimidating” and said that I’m so intimidating that I scare most guys off but it’s a good thing and people listen to me and take me seriously when I’m pissed.
Anyways I am still jealous of petite and average height women. I hate my size 13/14W feet! So tired of being disrespected and people making a huge deal about my size. I’m 20.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
You're a model tall girl. That's not ugly or wrong. My mom and aunts and big sister are all taller women. I'm sorry your ex didn't like you as you are but he's just some silly dude. As you age, you'll notice the difference between boys, and men. It doesn't matter what body we have, we all gotta rock it! 🌟
TallBigUglyGirl · 18-21, F
@Queendragonfly Then do people make a big deal about tall women and how big they are? Society hates us. I’m hated for being tall. Plus I rather be 5’6 than 6ft! I’m taller than most men. Even taller than the average American man which is 5’9” or 5’10” I think.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
@TallBigUglyGirl People make a big deal about their preferences yes. There's many who find short petite women unattractive too. Or who hates weak bodies and wants muscles on women. Or think tattoos are skanky. Or think being a career woman is off putting. Or thinking women who wants kids is ugly. I can go on. The question is, why do you care what strangers think?
All that matters is what you think about yourself and that you only focus on those who appreciate you as you are.
Others opinions will never stop. But you get to decide how to see yourself.
TallBigUglyGirl · 18-21, F
@Queendragonfly Men and boys are too brutally blunt about women’s bodies. I got dumped for being a big, tall 260lbs 6ft tall girl. Two years ago. I’m 235lbs now.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
I've always accepted that I will never be a petite woman. I'm big, and as it happens my husband loves my plus size figure. You'll do yourself a massive favour if you think like that and remove the word "ugly" from your screen name for a start.

It is not a good thing if people take you seriously when you're drunk. Do they take you seriously when you're sober?

Above all, DO NOT BE JEALOUS. If you feel jealousy towards someone, seek help.
TallBigUglyGirl · 18-21, F
@Crazychick Yeah. I understand men and women have preferences but it doesn’t mean they should dump us because we’re not the ideal body shape or figure for them! It’s not our job to please them. Right?
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@TallBigUglyGirl That is rarely the reason why people dump their partners around here. Couples here split for other reasons.
TallBigUglyGirl · 18-21, F
@Crazychick I know
TexChik · F
If you are as big and tall as you say, and you want a man...then turn to the fitness and body building world. Get fit, slim down, muscle up. I am only an Inch shorter that you but 100 pounds lighter. Certainly if you have a lot of bone and muscle mass you could easily be 160-175. Large bodied men and women go into body building. You are very young and can easily get this done and be happy.
Justsomeguy65 · 51-55, M
You sound fine to me. People are just weird.
I don’t see you as intimidating
Bruceall63 · 56-60, M
Its not your size. I grew up and don't notice what size a woman is. Beauty is inside. I know you've heard that before, but its true. At least for this guy.
akindheart · 61-69, F
that is funny because i am petite and wish I were at least 5'6"

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