After our fight, the market manager has decided to resign and move away

@caccoon Yes, resigning is probably a lot of things adding up and is not that strange, but moving away even. It doesn't sound stable or she maybe had really tough circumstances. It probably would have happened anyway even without the fight.

@Classified she's mentioned it a few times before me getting upset with her.

She has had a REALLY shitty year.

I have tried to be there for her as much as I can, I helped her move a few times, been an ear whenever I could, tried to help her through with gestures and words, taken a lot of passive aggression, and being yelled at.

Unfortunately our friendship has crumbled for now, though we are civil

@caccoon That's rough on her. You have been kind to her. You wanted to extend your kindness to others to and that was what the conflict was about, right?

It sounds like she took something personally that she didn't have to. Not your fault. 🤗

@Gusman yes I think so!

@Miram me too, and I can't help but feel she is hoping it hurts me, because she is hurting. And she is hurting a lot. I don't envy her. But sometimes it seems like she would rather wallow in her sadness than let go. It is all she talks about. And now I will be a part of her story she will tell people about constantly and that she fixates on

But her decisions are her own...

@caccoon

Yes, she is making the choice. It is her life.

You did well expressing the problems instead of letting things get worse. You can't allow people to control you no matter how difficult their lives are..it is exactly because they are going through a lot they must focus on what they can control and tend to their true problems.

Don't let this make you feel guilty. You're not responsible for someone else's decisions.

@Miram thank you 💙💙

I'm just really hoping it will be better for her and she is making the decision for herself in a positive way