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I'm so nervous about a negotiating something today.

I've been sick all morning
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That’s because you’ve already been negotiating it for this said negotiation. We’re never told clearly how we negotiate things before ever having to actually negotiate things, how that causes a pre mental breakdown before ‘it’ ever occurs. This is very circular making my head spin… You see what I’m saying? It’s very very suffocating it will cause the symptoms you’ve described to occur…
@WowwGirl I’m dead
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@MentalDisturbance no the constant back and forth and not knowing what is next. I'm a planner type person
@WowwGirl being a planner is a blessing for people like myself that can’t categorize and plan for shit. You stay in business👍
Stuffy · 61-69, F
I really feel for you. I can’t stand when I have anxiety. Do you know some coping skills for anxiety? Are you well prepared for the negotiation? Do you need more confidence?
Best wishes, good luck and feel better soon.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Stuffy I work in science, this is very new to me. I tried to prepare I researched all I could I'm still scared I'll get ripped off or do something wrong.
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@WowwGirl a stoic i listened to would say to imagine the worst outcome and see how it would not be the end of the world.
Recall any previous experiences in which you imagined the worst but things turned out better than you imagined.
Then imagine your future self having gotten through this successfully and revel in the relief and other good feelings you have when successful.
You're a smart lady .. you prepared. Take some deep breaths .. say "woosah" .. and trust in yourself. You got this.
Bleed · 41-45, F
I feel for you. It’s normally always way worse in your head.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Bleed you're right
SilverF0x · 46-50, M
Negotiations are always tricky. Remember they’re as interested in seeing the deal through as you are. Best wishes
HumanEarth · F
🫂 I'm sorry

What type of sickness, maybe I can help
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@HumanEarth nereves
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@HumanEarth ahhhhh 😮!!!
Pretzel · 70-79, M
good luck!!
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Pretzel t u I need it
JackDaniels · 46-50, M
Good luck, you will do great.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
do you need beta blockers?
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
But maybe a beer later
Matt85 · 36-40, M
@WowwGirl yes you must look forward to it!!
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Matt85 trying
Strongtea · 22-25, M
acpguy · C
You will do well I am sure.
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@acpguy it's a lot of $ involved that's the main reason for the nerves
PrimeTime · 51-55, M
Deep breath, and work your magic
Good luck
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Guardian yes it went fast too fast wasn't ready
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@WowwGirl how did it turn out?
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Stuffy 👍
Hang in there youll be fine
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Shybutwilling2bfriends I hope so thank you
@WowwGirl youre wowgirl
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Shybutwilling2bfriends WoWgirl is not a business woman. I'm a planner if I don't have a plan I get uneasy
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Degbeme · 70-79, M
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Degbeme it's a really big deal
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@WowwGirl Crossing them tightly for you
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Degbeme 🙏
Thrust · 56-60, M
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Thrust I did it
Thrust · 56-60, M
@WowwGirl

Woo-Hoo! Now that’s my ballsy gal! 🤗
WowwGirl · 36-40, F
@Thrust I thought of you actually, thank you but it's not over . They are up bidding one another starting at 6am this morning my phone started

 
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