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SageWanderer · 70-79, M
I think it’s the rose colored glasses syndrome; one looks for the positives in a new relationships. It’s only when you step away one sees the negatives and red flags. Set your priorities, keep to your values and do not settle for less.
deadgerbil · 22-25
It's good you're seeing him for what he actually is
caccoon · 36-40
@deadgerbil why couldn't he just be what I thought he was 😤
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Yeah, you gotta watch out for those red flags. It can be hard to notice. I think when we are with someone we want to give them the benefit of the doubt or the opportunity to improve. Nobody is perfect so it can be hard to know what to tolerate.
WillaKissing · 56-60
You are exactly right and very much a lady of my heart and mind in this thinking. If Our interests and values do not match neither will me!
Doomflower · 36-40, M
I am guilty of the same blind spots in past relationships!!! You at least got out and didn't linger for years like I tend to do.
NerdyPotato · M
That realization is a big step forwards. 👍