What’s the point of living?

Basically, you are the only one who can choose. Either spend your life just as you are, change your life, your attitude into what you desire, learn who you really are, or give up. Giving up is always an option but if you give up and end it there are no more options and can you do it without thoroughly fucking it up and leaving yourself a physical mess that you cannot change? Why not get over yourself and explore this world? Find what lights you up like a Christmas tree in the middle of the night? If you are avoiding who you are because you think no one will like that person well get over it. Avoiding who you really are will cause you misery no matter what. Embrace who you are, learn to love yourself and bring into your life those things that give you joy. Spend this life learning to be the best person you can be for yourself and your life will follow and be the best it can be for you. It took me 40 years to learn this don’t be like me and wait so long.

To find Christ. ✝️

Edashh I'm not being harsh on you now .
Do you know what your caught up in .
Self pity . When you get like that you find fault with everything .
I've been on the same both .
My only advice to you is try snap out of it cause you could end up in a pysche ward if it continues for so long . All it is is self pity .
Of course if your under the same roof with a person after so long they'd be clashes .
Then when your on your own . You'd find a fault then 😆😆😆.
Do you ever hear the sane the grass is greener on the other side ?
Well I tell you a story about me .
Me and my ex were always clashing towards the end of relationship. I mean insanity clashes .
She decided we leave the country. I said yes to please her cause at this stage I was trying to make it right , so was she .
We moved to Hong Kong.18 hour flight away from home . We were supposed to go to Australia for a year . We landed in Hong Kong. Lasted there 5 days . Never got to Australia. We had to come back cause I ended up getting a nervous breakdown over there . I lost $3500 over there .
A few weeks later the relationship ended . I wasn't right for a year and half . I ended up in a pysche ward first time for 3 day , second time for 6 weeks third time for a week , all in the space of a year .
The story I'm trying to tell you is count your lucky blessing where you are cause all of the suffering I was suffering from was grief and self pity mixed into one .
You have to be happy from the inside .
I was 29 . I'm 43 and still around .
See the biggest trick in the mind and what the mind would tell you is that everyone is having a great time except for me and if that goes deeper then suicide thoughts comes in ,
When there actually nothing happening.
I hope I came across to you 🙂.
There's no need to end lives

I know it sounds ridiculous, but its true that: it is always darkest before the dawn. Whether you believe it or not, Life will get better. How fast depends on YOU!

You don't know from where you came, and you don't know where you will go after death. Will that place be better from your current circumstances?, would it give you options to improve your circumstances there?

At least you know you have a hope & possibility to improve your circumstances here. First of all you have to learn to live with positivity & happiness. Positivity doesn't require you to live in good circumstances, it means you are positive for the your past, present & future, irrespective of your past experiences, current circumstances.

Similarly, happiness is an internal situation. Someone can be happy in the worst circumstances, and vice versa. The happiest people don't have the best things in their lives, but they appreciate what they have. Learning to live joyfully with things you do not like is a huge lesson in life.

To create an outside situation you need the cooperation of other people & forces. To create an inner situation you only need yourself.

[quote] I low key hate God for having a part in this. [/quote]

Why bring god into this man-made world and man-made problems? You should be asking your manufacturers/producers, why they brought you in without being able to support you. But yes.. there are choices to end it or gift your life by adding it to someone.

[quote]Does anyone have any advice?[/quote]
You are free to reach me to add your life and I can mentor and guide you for an exemplary living. But don't expect everything in a day, for I am no miracle man.

Im so sorry youre hurting and while I wish I could make it all go away all you can do is just keep putting one foot in front of the other and lean on loved ones and NEVER give up!

The struggle is the point. Decide what you want and take it when you can.

Nope, everyone doesn't feel as you do. There truly are those who are quite satisfied. Can't speak for all, but it seems to me that the reason for happiness lies in knowing the answer to your question about the reason for living. It's Love; for self, for others, for life. It brings gratitude and purpose and joy. Truly

Peace.

To try to make the world a better place

If you don't care if you live or not. It seems to me you are in a perfect position to get crazy. You can face all your fears. Don't have a boyfriend? Get one. Afraid of heights? Go skydiving. Live life, see what it's really like.

I can assure you that life is worth living. It is not stressfree but worth it. i saw a podcast last night and it was about suffering makes us successful. you need suffering to succeed. completely contrary to what we might think but completely true.

Have a drink.

Do the things that you enjoy doing as often as you can.

Make an appointment with your doctor: you found v depressed. No, not everyone feels the same way you do.

FOMO

I comments you answer you don’t sound very depressed