Why can't I

At your age appearance/ health , habits , and sexual performance, and debt are the factors men and women are looking for when considering a person as a prospective partner .

A partner, bah, who needs em

There's lots and lots of Angel Cake and Beefcake to be had out there but these days Cake is only for those who are either very rich or very interesting anymore.

They always go when someone better shows up and wants them.

I ask myself this often. For me its because I feel like I am broken and I don't know how to fix me.

The age old question. It’s a mystery. I’m sorry.

Cast a larger net.
Finding the right mate is one of the most important thing you will do in your life.
You need to have access to as many possibilities as possible so as to have the pick of the litter.

What does, “just for me” mean?

Men are naturally going to evaluate… job, looks, health, sexual proclivity, conversational ability, attire, emotional stability, sense of humor, hobbies… even political and religious compatibility.

Plan on dating a toothless, unemployed alcoholic anytime soon- just for him? Granted, that’s an extreme, but everything matters. Very attractive sexually active women simply get more opportunity to succeed or fail.

sentimos. I'd empathize, but I think I've given up the notion.

sometimes it comes easy, sometimes it's the hardest thing in the world

it's rare you find that now, those were old values from an earlier time.

Lower the Bar a few ntches

Blue donkeys aren't in high demand.

I’m sure you will!!!!!!!!

I'm here

Do you want the truth, brutal honesty-style or do you want it candy-coated?

I ask myself the same question and why does it have to be so difficult. 😕
Looking at your profile pic, you're adorable! 😊

What exactly do you mean “just for me”? Do you love yourself?

Truth is everyone sees us as they want to see us

There's no reason

Because there is almost 8 billion of us on the planet. If you're anything like me there maybe about 5 of those that you truly have a connection with.

I'm sure plenty of us wish to have someone who wants us just as we are...
Problem is that we don't want just anyone and neither do they. lol

Everybody has some basic things they will or won't deal with and ideas of what they want.
I will tell you this much though...those who only see what's on the outside are sure missing out on what's on the inside. And... I've found I am just fine with how I am... but think many would not be. So!.... I'll be sticking with ME. lol

In all seriousness, when someone accepts us as we are...just for ourselves, we'll know we've been blessed.
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